You can create tons of excuses for not being successful but nothing will change. Blaming makes you feel like a victim with no power or control over your life or destiny. Blaming and making excuses will destroy your energy and vitality and leave you with a feeling of frustration and desperation. Your life will not change until you take 100% responsibility of your life. You must give up all excuses and stop any blames. Stop blaming your parents, education, friends, spouse, coworkers, boss, weather, country, government, ...etc If you continue blaming and making excuses then congratulations... You will fail!!!! "99% of all failures come from people who have a habit of making excuses" - George Washington Carver. Engrave the above quote in your mind. You only fail when you surrender and loose persistence. And you will surrender by starting to blame and make excuses. But if you take 100% responsibility of your life you will try again and again until you achieve what you want. Because only you can get the right results and you will waste your time by blaming circumstances. If you are not convinced, then before I prove it to you lets agree on this: "At least act as if you are 100% responsible" If you don't believe that you are 100% responsible of your life and that everything happens to you results from your decisions and actions, then at least act AS IF you are. This will decrease your level of blaming, increase your chances of success and provide you with confidence in yourself and abilities. If you want a proof that you are 100% responsible then lets discuss the following formula which I learned from Jack Canfield’s book called “The Success Principles” Lets go back to your math classes… E+R=O Event + Response = Outcome Your outcome only depends on your response to a certain event. You have no control over events or circumstances. You only have control over yourself and your responses. You lost your control long time ago due to myths like “no body can change circumstances”, “external factors determine your destiny” and all similar staff you have learned in the past. Now forget about your past and focus on the following two choices: 1. You can blame your circumstances and make excuses but you will not reach anything you want. 2. You can change your responses to a certain event until you get what you want. And this will make all the difference. Gain control of your thinking, decisions, actions, responses, etc. and you are on your greatness path. Take 100% responsibility of your life. You have control over your thoughts and actions. So, don't let go of your ultimate power. And strive for success. My friend you can make a difference. I believe in you. How do you define success? Is it money, career, love, marriage, family, friendship, respect, community? For me, success is primarily about love. How many lives do I touch with mine? How many hearts? Who has been changed by my existence in a postive way? I hope that people judge me as a good person and that if I died tomorrow that there would be great mourning. If we really want this success then we will set ourselves on fire. We won't wait for spontaneous combustion. Use the Best-Kept and Best-Selling Collection of Self Help, Success & Spiritual Ebooks Ever Written... At Your Fingerstips or Best-Selling Collection of YOGA Just One of These Tips Will Help YOU To Save More Money, Make A Better Relationship, Have A Healthier Body and Create Huge Success In Life and Business! Copyright © Anne-Marie Ronsen You have permission to publish this article electronically, in print, in your ebook or on your web site, free of charge, as long as the author bylines are included. FREE Download Ebooks FREE Ebook Membership FREE Software FREE Premium Content Manual Website Submission FORUM FREE Quality Content ALL About AUTISM Always seek the advice of your physician or other qualified health care provider with any questions you may have regarding a medical condition. Never disregard professional medical advice or delay in seeking it because of something you have read. Anne-Marie Ronsen is the author of many wealth and self development books. Download FREE e-books from http://www.e-bestsellers.com, http://www.plrbestsellers.com or http://www.universalpublishingltd.com ...You will learn about the best tips and recommendations to improve your health, weight and wealth. You'll also discover FREE Premium content at http://www.ibestof.com/ and Manual Submission Directory at: http://www.webdirectorybank.com
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