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To develop your secret power weapon, aspiring divas everywhere, fess up: The very idea of having to reinvent ourselves sends us off to bed with the covers pulled tightly up over our heads. The thought of change is so unsettling. Who wants to be jolted out of her comfort zone? Reinvent ourselves, on the other hand, is an ongoing, adventurous journey in life. Like fine wine, each decade should be layered with the richness of our experiences. Here are some reinvention guidelines to follow: Reinvent yourself each and every decade. Let’s face it, the very things you’re enjoyed in your thirties may not work as you hit forty. Before the age of forty, you may be have busy with your career pursuits, raising a family, dating lots of different guys, or trying to get out of a not so perfect relationship. As you approach each decade of your life, take stock of the state of your evolution. Celebrate your successes; eliminate those things that don’t fit like high maintenance houses or relationship. Continue to evolve, confident that you are adding layers to a rich tapestry of experiences reflected in your inner and outer being. Whether it is a 18-karat gold lion head’s ring, complete with diamonds or a pearl bead necklace, you’ve involved to design this ring or necklace, and it remains your signature. When you wear it, you may feel this power, and experience your own personal strength. People always remember these pieces of jewelry, which help them to remember you. Your secret power weapon could be a one of a kind designer handbag, or a custom charm bracelet with each charm marking some important personal milestone. Perhaps you are a collector of beautiful encrusted pins, and can select the perfect pin to match every occasion. To conquer your inner fear of change - Are you the type who eats the same lunch every day, drives the same route to work, and goes to the same resort year after year with the same group of friends? You may need to face the fear of changing. Don’t disrupt everything all at once. Start small instead of going to the same supermarket, try a different one. If you have been thinking to reinvent yourself in a different outlook by updating your hair style or changing your costume jewelry, then go for a consultation. Stay yourself forever young – The fact that you are aging doesn’t mean you have to become old. Become ageless instead. Having a highly develop sense of humor, with the ability to laugh at your own foibles. Be interested in people around you and the world at large. Stay current and keep challenger your mind. Be a good listener, and impart your wisdom and knowledge to others with diplomacy and love. Finally, remember you are one of a kind; there is no one like you at any age in the world. Appreciate your uniqueness, and you will never feel invisible.
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