Do you keep in touch with you friends every year, every month or every week? In our daily life, not everyone can have a deepening friendship. If these friendships leave away from us or even disappear, we should take some action to make them longer and healthier. |
Here are some tips to keep the friendship: 1. Communicate appropriately. I think it's the most important point in the friendship. Communication will be simple, about five minute’s phone call and a short simple massage; don't need more calls and emails to the friends. Know your friends' timetable and don't call too early or too late. If have any emergency situation, notice your friends immediately even they are resting. And when your friend's birthday is coming, give a call or send a birthday gift, even when the present is just a cheap charm, your friend will be touched since you care about him/her.
Ask one of your faithful friends, and to see how he evaluates you about the methods of getting along with others, then you can change and make some promotions.
2. To improve yourself You will attract others when you are compassionate and respected, so just be honest, generous and modest. To avoid the endless complaining, if not, your friends will leave you cause this makes people tired. Talk to your friends about how to change the unhappy things of your life. In fact, this is just a kind of communication - the soul communication.
3. Listening Care about your friends and know their living conditions. Don't always talk about yourself; friendship will can't last long if you only care about yourself.
4. Don't idealize friendship There are no two pieces of the same leaves in the world. Although your friend has similar interest and temperament, friend is the real human after all. There will be some difference between your friend and you. Everyone has secrets that not willing to share with others. So, don't idealize the friend.
5. Tolerate the shortcomings of your friends You need to have awareness that you are generous to tolerate once you find out the shortcoming of your friend, then help your friend to overcome the shortcomings in an appropriate time.
6. Friends need to be themselves Your friends are not the reproduction of you, they would have their own hobbies and personalities; if you request your friends have the same hobbies as you dogmatically, they will away from you.
7. Respect for the friend's privacy Every person has privacy. It's not necessary to report everything to you. Your friend is not unfaithful for what he/she doesn't tell you. Your friend may hate you. They have their own privacy and space, just respect them.
Friendship is one of the most beautiful things in the world, if you act as the tips above; I think your friendship will last forever!
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