Right when I was beginning to think that meeting women was not my cup of tea and it would be better if I just signed up on a dating website, I came across this great book The tao of badass by Joshua Pellicer . Three weeks after applying the techniques mentioned in the book, I have begun to see great results. The book is really great and if you think that meeting great women and getting them to like you is important for you then this is the book for you. There are multiple techniques mentioned in the book and I am going to share with you some of them that come in use when you want to meet good women. 1. Be specific what you are looking for – Most guys are just looking for a girl who will have sex with them. Most guys never get anywhere with women. If your standards are so low, you are only going to repulse them. If you are really interested in meeting women, first know very well what exactly you want in a woman. Only then does the endeavour have value. Or else you should probably call a hooker and have sex with her. 2. Confidence – You have come across this piece of advice way too often but I have to mention this over here. There is nothing that you will ever achieve with women if you don’t commit to yourself that you will be confident around women. The simple reason being that the only men women are ever interested in are the men who are confident. There is nothing in a man that turns on a woman more than confidence. If you really want to find a good woman, you need to exhibit confidence and if you think that you are low on it then you need to develop it. 3. Mind your body language – You may not know it but the real conversation that takes place when two strangers meet is more about their body language than their words. Each one of us has been hard wired through evolution to be able to read body language of others. Body language ranges from facial expressions to your posture to the placement of your feet. Now there are some specific things that a man does when he is confident and dominant and there are the other set of things a man does when he is shy, timid or desperate. If you manage to exhibit the attribute of confidence and dominance through your body language, women will flock to you from across the hall. This concept however is explained much better in the Tao of Badass by Joshua Pellicer ad if you really want to get to know more about it, you should read the book. 4. Avoid cheesy pickup lines if you cannot pull them off - You will know whether doing this works in the first five times that you do it. Let’s face it, there are men who come up with cheesy pick up lines and are able to impress the ladies but the truth is that not everyone can do that. So try fancy pick up lines only if you think you can pull them off. 5. Don’t be a salesman – Most men go around being salesmen who want to impress the women with their attributes. However that is not how it works. You are not going to meet good women if you constantly try to sell yourself to them. That is like saying subconsciously that you know you are not good enough for them so you have make that extra effort to sell yourself to them. 6. Read her body language – You need to know what a woman is thinking to build rapport with her. To do this, it is absolutely essential that you read her body language and know exactly what she is thinking to be able to respond appropriately. 7. Showing off does not help – Sure guys with Lamborghinis manage to get the women of their choice but the more important part to understand is that showing off is a part of desperation and that even if you show off, women should not be able to make out that you want to show off. And that happens more than you think. Thus the best option is to just stop showing off at all. 8. Don’t be afraid of rejection – I understood a long time back that the main reason I was not able to approach women was that I was too afraid of getting rejected by them. And I thought that the solution to that was not interacting with them at all. We all face rejection and we just have to make our peace with it. I hope that helps. For a much better explanation of this stuff you should try reading the Tao of Badass by Joshua Pellicer. He is a dating coach by profession and can explain these concepts much better.
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