Why K will have so of love? Love is not sweet? And he love seems to be a start is painful. Abandoned trauma and engulf trauma Our inner trauma can be roughly divided into two kinds, one kind is abandoned trauma, one kind is swallowed up by the trauma. When I was a child, if a child and parents - especially Stiff Nights mother's relationship is very alienation and even often separation, can produce abandoned trauma. On the contrary, if parents and a child's too close relationship between parents and children in the life and as the only words, the child will have be engulf trauma.
Because there are abandoned trauma, a person would be matchless longing for love, and in love every minute are eager to close, so that people in love do not understand what is the personal space. On the contrary, because has been swallowed up wound, Black Ant pills a person in love but will be particularly pay attention to yourself if you have the space, he will always reserve a piece of heaven and earth, and sometimes is alone, sometimes is keep some secrets, sometimes is attention away from love to move to another place, even is the betrayal. This double fear mixed together To K is concerned, these two kinds of trauma he has.
first when young mother busy with work, no time to accompany him, before the age of 3 memory always alone, he is always a person in Tiger King the home, sometimes in a grandmother, grandmother people are very good, but very cold, as if no heart. Therefore, he had serious abandoned trauma. Then, wait for him a few bigger, mother treated him very dependent on, he obviously felt, to a mother character, it seems that dad and all other relatives is not important, he is the only, he is the mother's, but this let K has been swallowed up feeling. Because be abandoned, so afraid of loneliness, because be swallowed up, so fear of intimacy.
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