Individuals have taken to on-line dating like a duck takes to water because it works or, at least, it can work. Women are, in large, apprehensive of encountering a man that she has been chatting with online. All they have heard about are the terrible matters that can happenand, I must say, they have a right to be careful to the extreme. Thats not only wise but essential. So whats a nice guy to do? You aren't a degenerate, a sexual predator, or a weirdo. You are just a nice guy looking for the girl for you. You must be enduring. Dont pressure her for personal information like her real name or where she lives. Keep your conversations fresh and fun until she feels easy speaking with you online. Dont try to rush her into meeting face-to-face. She will think you are desperate or a degenerate. Patience. Patience. Patience. Be perfectly true about your natural appearance and occupation. A great relationship has never been, and will never be, built on lies and deception. Eventually she will find out the truth in any event and there you are backwards at square one. A picture really is worth a thousand words. Post many images of yourself doing your daily activities and make them whole body shots, not just head shots. If you were seeing a young lady in the solid world she wouldnt just see your head. Once the discussion has been opened about meeting face-to-face for the first time, propose that you meet in a very public place, during daylight hours and that she bring a acquaintance with her. After all, you have zero to hide. Youve told her the trueness about yourself and she has already seen a lot of pictures of you. The only thing left is to make her feel safe encountering you.
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