Shaadi is one aspect of life that every young Muslim men or women have to deal with at least once in their lives. In Pakistani, Arab and Bengali culture the sooner the men and women are ready for their Islamic marriage, the better it is considered. However, even in this era, most of the young men and women leave this matter of shadi at the disposal of the elders in the family, and they are ones who decide in the end. This has been an age old culture in Islamic marriage, but quite recently the trend of finding a partner for shaadi has changed. Men and women, who are interested in this lifelong commitment, prefer to find their match for shadi themselves. For parents who wish their children follow the customs led in an Islamic marriage should make sure they have ingrained such values in their children since childhood. Many Muslims living abroad have a hard time finding a perfect match for their children’s shaadi especially when it comes to someone who follows the same culture. The different events that precede and follow the main event of shadi also vary within the Muslim community. The old custom prevents any communication between the engaged couple before shaadi. While this norm is followed strictly in most cultures, a few Muslim communities have been lenient towards their children and allowed for pre-marriage interactions. For those Muslim men and Muslim women living abroad, it has become easier to initiate a long-distance interaction through social media. Muslim social media sites like Naseeb aid such people in finding potential matches for their Islamic marriage. Keeping within the norms of the Islamic marriage, men and women can interact with each other and find their match based on common interests, religion etc. Social media has indeed helped this generation in finding a better match for their shadi!
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