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What to wear to a swinger’s party Tonight’s the night! You and your partner are getting ready to hit the local swinger’s party. You’re excited about meeting up with some great new people, who knows what may happen.. All that’s left now is to decide what to wear! o god what to wear,thats interesting, Remember when deciding: the better you dress, the more likely you are to hook up. You want to look hot and turn heads. Most men and women are very visual and you’ll want them to think ‘WOW’. Sometimes, all people will give you is one glance. First impressions are important. If they don’t like what they see they’re not going to give you their time. Sad but true, especially in swinging. For Women You can be as daring as you like at an adult club – feel free to use your imagination! Sexy outfits are a hit. If you are on a date with another couple, a casual but sexy outfit is fine, get a little sexy but not over the top as you don’t know what the other woman will be wearing. No underwear is usually a crowd pleaser! As far as underwear is concerned G-strings, thongs, bikinis are the norm (avoid the granny knickers!) A nice bra with push up power is good too, everyone will want to see a nice bra – be warned! High heels turn heads, but be careful if you are not used to wearing them as you’ll soon be kicking them off as your feet start to ache! The key point is to wear things that flatter your body shape and bring out your best bits! For Men Ok, men tend to struggle a bit more than women in the dressing department. Your best bet is a nice, solid colour shirt, pair of black trousers and some real leather shoes. If you have a good physique a crisp, close fitting shirt will show the ladies how good your pecs are! Never wear a football shirt, or sports team logo shirt – we don’t care if your team won the champions league, superbowl etc! – just don’t do it, please. Baseball caps are a no-no, as are sleazy excessive gold chains. What about underwear for the guys? Many swingers don’t wear underwear, it’s personal choice, but if you do please make sure they are clean and presentable – no fraying, off-white, baggy Y- fronts, The Two classes of Swinger dressers 1. Beginner Swingers They wear more conservative clothing, usually because they don’t know any better, they tend to dress as they would at a normal club or party. Many wear jeans which is a no-no at most adult clubs. If you’re dressed as a geek in a polo neck sweater and grey trousers bearing no skin, you will be perceived as a ‘non-player’ Your chances of hooking up are based on people’s perceptions of how you look – remember this. 2. Experienced Swingers 2nd, 3rd, 4th time plus swingers – they have learned what to wear as they’ve gone along, there will be bear skin in abundance. They know this is no disco – it is a sex club and dress accordingly. Mini skirts, fishnets, stilettos are the norm. They dress sexily, interact with others, are playful and let everyone know their intentions for the evening, whether they play or not. Remember, dress to make a good impression. Right or wrong, people judge on first impressions. So, if you’re attending a party as a voyeur only, put your crotchless basque and stilettos back in your closet for the evening as you may give the wrong message. Also, compliment your partner – guys if your lady dresses hot and sexy, you should too, otherwise it may look like only one of you wants to play. Most importantly dress to feel comfortable, sexy and confident. Self-confidence and being at ease with your body is a big turn-on. Have fun ..Link 18+..
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