Amazines Free Article Archive
www.amazines.com - Thursday, May 23, 2019
Read about the most recent changes and happenings at Amazines.com
Log into your account or register as a new author. Start submitting your articles right now!
Search our database for articles.
Subscribe to receive articles emailed straight to your email account. You may choose multiple categories.
View our newest articles submitted by our authors.
View our most top rated articles rated by our visitors.
* Please note that this is NOT the ARTICLE manager
Add a new EZINE, or manage your EZINE submission.
Add fresh, free web content to your site such as newest articles, web tools, and quotes with a single piece of code!
Home What's New? Submit/Manage Articles Latest Posts Top Rated Article Search
Google
Subscriptions Manage Ezines
CATEGORIES
 Article Archive
 Advertising (133295)
 Advice (160816)
 Affiliate Programs (34734)
 Art and Culture (73674)
 Automotive (145642)
 Blogs (75018)
 Boating (9841)
 Books (17130)
 Buddhism (4124)
 Business (1328283)
 Business News (426309)
 Business Opportunities (366257)
 Camping (10952)
 Career (72762)
 Christianity (15839)
 Collecting (11636)
 Communication (115054)
 Computers (241947)
 Construction (38992)
 Consumer (49679)
 Cooking (17061)
 Copywriting (6567)
 Crafts (18204)
 Cuisine (7538)
 Current Affairs (20380)
 Dating (45774)
 EBooks (19685)
 E-Commerce (48193)
 Education (185180)
 Electronics (83491)
 Email (6389)
 Entertainment (159819)
 Environment (28933)
 Ezine (3038)
 Ezine Publishing (5443)
 Ezine Sites (1553)
 Family & Parenting (110897)
 Fashion & Cosmetics (196383)
 Female Entrepreneurs (11842)
 Feng Shui (130)
 Finance & Investment (310257)
 Fitness (105903)
 Food & Beverages (62849)
 Free Web Resources (7938)
 Gambling (30213)
 Gardening (25079)
 Government (10513)
 Health (629244)
 Hinduism (2206)
 Hobbies (44032)
 Home Business (91544)
 Home Improvement (251321)
 Home Repair (46116)
 Humor (4815)
 Import - Export (5449)
 Insurance (45118)
 Interior Design (29544)
 International Property (3485)
 Internet (190967)
 Internet Marketing (146303)
 Investment (22824)
 Islam (1168)
 Judaism (1357)
 Law (80457)
 Link Popularity (4592)
 Manufacturing (20838)
 Marketing (98757)
 MLM (14136)
 Motivation (18211)
 Music (26998)
 New to the Internet (9476)
 Non-Profit Organizations (4048)
 Online Shopping (129608)
 Organizing (7802)
 Party Ideas (11856)
 Pets (38081)
 Poetry (2234)
 Press Release (12670)
 Public Speaking (5620)
 Publishing (7522)
 Quotes (2407)
 Real Estate (126610)
 Recreation & Leisure (95247)
 Relationships (87449)
 Research (16157)
 Sales (80313)
 Science & Technology (110157)
 Search Engines (23445)
 Self Improvement (153090)
 Seniors (6228)
 Sexuality (35942)
 Small Business (49281)
 Software (82955)
 Spiritual (23461)
 Sports (116071)
 Tax (7658)
 Telecommuting (34064)
 Travel & Tourism (307161)
 UK Property Investment (3118)
 Video Games (13422)
 Web Traffic (11724)
 Website Design (56803)
 Website Promotion (36556)
 World News (1000+)
 Writing (35761)
Author Spotlight
ALFRED MEARS

Former English Teacher; Musician (20+ years); Freelance Writer ...more
AMIT TIWARI

Amit Tiwari is a Digital marketing expert with over 4 years of experience and a wide variety of know...more
ALEN OWEN

I am an essay writer with vast experience in data analysis, PowerPoint writing and research paper ed...more
MOBILE STYLES

Mobile Styles, the leading on-demand Beauty & Health app in the U.S. delivers talented professionals...more
BARRY BROWN

Barry K. Brown has been in the Sign, Banner, Decal and Display Business for over 20 years. It isn't ...more


She Blamed What on his Mother? Part 3 of 3 by R Jones





She Blamed What on his Mother? Part 3 of 3 by
Article Posted: 04/11/2013
Article Views: 314
Articles Written: 22
Word Count: 706
Article Votes: 0
AddThis Social Bookmark Button

She Blamed What on his Mother? Part 3 of 3


 
Advice,Family & Parenting,Self Improvement
In Part 3 I would like to discuss what we call at Dragon Tamers as the “Line of Responsibility”. The line is the point where one can see that responsibility of one person ends and the other begins. If you have not already done so, please do a search for the first two parts titled “She Blamed What on his Mother? Part 1 of 3” and “She Blamed What on his Mother? Part 2 of 3” and give them a read. This will assist in understanding the context of part 3.

One of the topics that cause great amounts of misery for people is that they do not know when they should be dropping responsibility and also when they should be picking it up. As we discussed in parts one and two, Jane’s was distressed over the accusation that is was her fault that her adult son of 30 years with 3 children never held a real job, did not continue his education after high school in any format, and still live at home with her and her husband. In part 2 I asked readers to post comments on their opinion as what Jane should do. As those come in, I would like continue and discuss at what point is Jane and her husband no longer responsible.

The Law states that a child reaches the age of consent at 18. They are granted or gifted the privilege (called a right) to vote, legal status of choice in their life, but with the exception of the requirement to register for selective service, the law does not really require much in the way of responsibility. That is the funny thing about that age, all legal responsibility is completely conditional, and in some cases optional for 18 year old adults. Do not down play the importance of these as environmental factors for the adult children. As many parents can testify, some adult children focus on their “rights” and have been for years. More than one parent in this situation had to deal with their 16 year old dropping out of school because the law allows it, only to spend the next two years parked in front of the TV because the law also placed the responsibility for the child’s wellbeing and actions on the shoulders of the parent.

In the real world a Parent feels responsible to “raise and guide” our children all of their lives. However parents for both their sake and happiness and that of their children need to learn to let go. Children as they grow in most cases will naturally take on responsibility for themselves, which of course makes it easier and natural for parents to find the Line of Responsibility. However in this modern world, people, including children receive a large amount of data. Much of this is marketing propaganda about being in touch with one’s feelings (people who embrace their feelings are much more likely to impulse buy) and political propaganda that claims that one is not responsible for their own lives. These are in fact powerful factors of the environment that children perceive.

To really understand the Line of Responsibility one must understand Freewill. We all have heard of it, yet most responsible people fail to acknowledge it. Every person has freewill, and at the age of 16 we start to legally grant children the privilege to exercise free will. The Line of Responsibility goes hand in hand with Freewill. See the Line of Responsibility is drawn at the same place in a person’s life that they obtain the right to exercise Freewill. After all is it not an exercise of Freewill when an Adult Child makes the choice to not move forward in life?

If you would like to know more details on Nature vs. Nurture, or the “Just Is” please visit us at Dragon Tamers a completely free discussion forum dedicated to helping individuals understand the factors that drive and motivate our actions. This website is a project with the objective to enhance the lives of people, and bring inner peace. You can learn more about me, the mission, and who the Dragon Tamers are on the about page of the website.

Related Articles - psychology, philosophy, self help, self improvement, Family, Family help,

Email this Article to a Friend!

Receive Articles like this one direct to your email box!
Subscribe for free today!

 Rate This Article  
Completely useless, should be removed from directory.
Minimal useful information.
Decent and informative.
Great article, very informative and helpful.
A 'Must Read'.

 

Do you Agree or Disagree? Have a Comment? POST IT!

 Reader Opinions 
Submit your comments and they will be posted here.
Make this comment or to the Author only:
Name:
Email:
*Your email will NOT be posted. This is for administrative purposes only.
Comments: *Your Comments WILL be posted to the AUTHOR ONLY if you select PRIVATE and to this PUBLIC PAGE if you select PUBLIC, so write accordingly.
 
Please enter the code in the image:



 Author Login 
LOGIN
Register for Author Account

 

Advertiser Login

 

ADVERTISE HERE NOW!
   Limited Time $60 Offer!
   90  Days-1.5 Million Views  

 

Great Paranormal Romance

World News


STEVERT MCKENZIE

Stevert Mckenzie, Travel Enthusiast. ...more
STEPHEN BYE

Steve Bye is currently a fiction writer, who published his first novel, ‘Looking Forward Through The...more
GENE MYERS

Author of four books and two screenplays; frequent magazine contributor. I have four other books "in...more
SUSAN FRIESEN

Susan Friesen, founder of the award-winning web development and digital marketing firm eVision Media...more
PAUL AZORIN

Paul Azorin Chief Technology Officer at BairesDev Pablo Azorín is the Founder and Chief Techno...more
JAMES KENNY

James is a Research Enthusiast that focuses on the understanding of how things work and can be impro...more
TREENA MURPHY

Warm greetings to you!! Hello there, my name is Treena (Smiley) Murphy I am a part time blogge...more
LAURA JEEVES

At LeadGenerators, we specialise in content-led Online Marketing Strategies for our clients in the t...more
LUMINHOME LIGHTING

About Us Luminhome Lighting provide one-stop services in lighting design and manufacture of LED lum...more
KIRAN KAUR

Kiranpreet (Kiran) Kaur, D.D.S., who received her Doctor of Dental Surgery degree from the prestigio...more

HomeLinksAbout UsContact UsTerms of UsePrivacy PolicyFAQResources
Copyright © 2019, All rights reserved.
Some pages may contain portions of text relating to certain topics obtained from wikipedia.org under the GNU FDL license