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The Euphoria surrounding the marriage starts right from the day when a boy and a girl get engaged. Every family member from both sides gets introduced to the would-be couple. The couple themselves would like to get to know each other better. They would also like to get acquainted with their friends. It is very important that there is a time period set by any couples, before getting married because a proper understanding between them will negate some doubts in their mind. Even though, they have got engaged, still there are lots of things to be highlighted by them. It is all but natural, when a bride or a groom is going to move with a stranger, a sense of mixed emotion fills their heart and mind. So there are several moments that exist before they get married. What would they be? Let me bring it to you with the following situations. Want to know more about each other’s past Whether you are a boy or a girl, you would definitely have the inquisitiveness to know about his or her past. One is not so sure whether they can trust each other. Whatever information provided by them in their matrimonial profile may or may not be accurate. There have been several instances, where they feel cheated after getting married as they have discovered some truth of their counterpart. It leads to a sense of loss and betrayal to whoever is the victim. So they would like to take it slow by finding out more about the other, through known quarters. They would also like to know whether each other’s tastes and preference are exactly as what they had mentioned in their profiles. Whether they can get along well with their in-laws Marriage is not all about a bride and a groom accepting each other and living together. It is also to do with whether or not they will be acceptable to their in-laws. Most often, we have seen marriages breakup because of the discomfort of living with their in-laws. Either of them would find it difficult to live with their in-laws. This will lead to argument between the would-be couples and may force them to go in their separate ways. That’s why most of them would like to spend extra time, in knowing each other’s family members, before they give final consent to getting married. Even the in-laws would like to understand a boy or a girl’s expectation and act accordingly. It is a tough choice to make for a couple to be together and at the same time accept each other’s in-laws. Because at the end of the day, their family matters as they are their first love. Not really prepared for the marriage This is the common thought process that lingers in every bride and a groom’s mind. Sometimes marriages are forced upon them by their parents. As a result, they are not really prepared to get married. For instance, a girl may not really be interested in getting married for various reasons. Similarly, a boy may not be ready because he does not want to shoulder any responsibility at the prevailing moment. So both of them reluctantly accept their parents call and get engaged. It depends on how both their parents convince them to get married. This is the thought process that goes through an individual’s mind before they take the next big step. Getting prepared before the big day A marriage is not complete without the perfect settings that ought to take place during the big day. Each of them would do loads of shopping and look out for the best. This creates a wonderful atmosphere amongst both the sides. Going to miss their loved ones At the time of marriage, both the bride and the groom will feel a void in their heart as they are going to miss their loved ones. It is a common phenomenon that exists, mainly with the girls who feel emotional about leaving their beloved parents and moving to a stranger’s place. As much as there is a fanfare on the wedding day, there is also a sense of grief. In the end, a happy marriage is all about seeing every stake holder getting along well with each other rather than only the bride and the groom. Apart from the principle stakeholders, their respective family members will also have to live together. There must not be an iota of suspicion between the bride and the groom. This moment of trust and solidarity will make the marriage more eventful and everlasting, than a moment of regret post marriage.
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