I'm going to touch up on a key aspect in life that I've gone through and I think you have too. Trying to please others. We go through life and have are ups and downs, and feel like we should be able to bond with everyone. Maybe one day this can be reality, but right now on this earth there are unconscious people. |
Do you know of a time when your just angry or not sure about a situation and you just don't want anyone to talk to you, or your quick to judge someone to make yourself feel better. Yes that's right you judge to make yourself feel better, and I use to be one of these people, until I noticed myself doing this. By submerging myself with the right kind of thinking ( self development ). It helped me open my eyes to a new world I use to be unconscious to. I still slip sometimes and have myself being on the side of judging people, but I'm able to caught myself, when it happens.
I also caught myself trying to get peoples acceptance sometimes, as I feel we are all connected in a way. But that's pretty selfish of me to think just because I feel good that the other person should be able to feel good. I have to have an understanding that not everyone is going to accept that.
You know what the funny thing is? Once I notice I'm doing this and go back to focusing on me and my desires in life and don't pay any attention to that person. That person will try and get my attention. It's funny how that is. People are simply unconscious of their actions.
But you have to understand that people are doing the best they can with what they have. It's not your place to change people, but to understand how things work sometimes can really benefit you. As you become present with yourself and your actions and be an example and people will sometimes follow.
Sometimes you get someone that is just more open to share, but I could tell you that if they don't submerge themselves in personal development they don't know what their doing and they just do it on autopilot. They could be good in one area but be missing in another to help them move forward. They can be nice for the wrong reasons. But sometimes you get the people that don't care, they judge and don't think twice about it. They have you back off, and that's they way they like it. Making it seem like their way is the right way.
All you can do at this point is don't pay any attention to their unconsciousness. You must know what you desire in life, and see if this helps you move towards your goal. If it doesn't become present and focus on your thoughts and empower the ones that make you get closer towards your desire. Don't judge the person, just observe, send out positive thoughts and don't associate with them. This does not affect your life because it doesn't hep you move forward. You're simply transparent and let it go right through you. It's like water slipping off a ducks back.
See the best thing you can do for this world is to make sure you give to yourself first. Make yourself happy, and give value along the way to were you see you can add. Follow your dreams your desires and make sure your making the right actions to attain it. If others follow, so be it, but if they don't, don't stress about it let it slip off, and become present in the moment and go after your goals, with passion.
That's your mission in life. It's your duty your desire to fulfill it. It's not work, it's not hard, it's what you love to do. So go out there and love what you do.
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