Perhaps you've experienced the power of affirmations.
Tell yourself a thousand times you can't do something, and you're that much closer to failure. Tell yourself repeatedly you can do something, and you're more likely to succeed.
Taken to the extreme, some people claim you can manifest anything you want with positive thinking.
While we would like that to be true, we have a different view about the subject.
Through our many years of empirical research our findings show, consistently, that your experiences have a lot to do with personal timing, which is a reflection of your destiny (which is the same thing as fate).
The fabric of fate consists of both "good" and "bad" things.
That means you can only manifest something if it's part of your destined path.
Sometimes your personal timing is conducive to looking great and feeling sexy, and situations in your life will mirror that. Sometimes it's the opposite.
Surely, you've experienced feeling like your personal magnetism is off the charts, like you just can't lose. Yet other times you feel like you're invisible, or you're humiliated to the point of wondering if your trials are being filmed with a hidden camera and the joke is on you.
But we've also found everyone has free will to react and make the most of themselves and every situation.
You can't change your fate, but what you think and your attitude can shape your reality around the destined experiences. Lemonade made from life's lemons can be exceedingly refreshing.
You have free will to worry and think negative thoughts, or you can take charge of your life and do what you can to improve it and stop worrying about that which you can't change.
One thing that makes life easier is looking and feeling your best. How you treat others is most important, but in our society, how you look also matters. Show up for a first date or job interview looking sloppy, tense and lacking confidence and it may ruin your chances. Let yourself go (physically) in a relationship and your mate might lose interest.
Is there anything wrong with wanting to improve your appearance and be sexier? Not in our opinion, unless you have hang-ups about sex.
Below are 18 magic affirmations to help you improve your appearance and be sexier. Repeat them often enough and your mind will accept them as fact and play the part.
The subconscious mind is fascinating and very powerful. It can't discern between reality and imagination. It will believe you when you continuously affirm, "I'm irresistibly sexy," and take action to match your words. You may not be named People Magazine's "Sexiest Man (or Woman) Alive," but you can at least move up a few notches in sex appeal.
Note: Affirmations or subliminals are effective whether you use "I" or "you." However, sometimes "I" is more effective for people who don't like following direction, and sometimes "you" is better for people who don't yet believe the affirmations. With repeated use, you can overcome either obstacle.
1) Life is improving for me each and every day.
2) I'm finding more fun and excitement in life.
3) I'm feeling relaxed and happy and it shows.
4) I deserve and accept great health.
5) I love and respect my body.
6) My mind and body are calm and relaxed.
7) My body is strong, beautiful, and efficient.
8) I'm balanced and centered.
9) I'm confident and self-assured.
10) I consume what works for my body and avoid what doesn't.
11) I have self-discipline to exercise often.
12) I do what I need to do to look and feel my best.
13) I aim to look and feel my best every day.
14) I accept that it's okay to look sexy.
15) I deserve to be beautiful.
16) I'm looking younger and healthier every day.
17) I'm finding new ways to look and feel healthier and sexier.
18) I radiate sex appeal and confidence.
Now that you understand that your thoughts influence your reality, you can use these affirmations to help improve your appearance and be sexier.
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