Bi-curious men can be easily frustrated with what they should or could do in their sexual life. Let's look at some basic advice to help men out there who want to be more comfortable with their sexual preferences.
The most important thing is to find out what are your sexual preferences and what makes your mind and body happy. You need to be the predator or the one that gets hunted? In order to find out what you really want, you need to experiment with various situations. That takes patience and you need to be comfortable with the whole situation, but don't worry, sooner or later you will get there. If you are already married to a woman and you don't want to hurt her feelings or destroy your marriage it is important to know who makes you happy.
Gay or bisexual people are best suited for your experimenting since they are open-minded, comfortable and probably won't judge you in any case. Spending time in gay bars and getting to know more gay men can be quite helpful for you. Don't be ashamed or shy, offer someone a drink and you might find something you were looking for in the first place. On the other hand, if you don't enjoy the whole experience you know what to avoid next time.
Another great tip for bi-curious men is using one of the various online dating sites. Since some bi-curious men don't feel comfortable with the whole situation and feel ashamed, it's better for them to start their adventures on a dating site. Be careful though which site you will spend your time and money on. Be thorough in your research. Look for gay dating sites or bi-curious dating sites. Avoid fake profiles or scammers and most definitely avoid people who are trying to deceive you. There are big networks exclusively for men like you, so a good research and good communication with other persons can get you what you are looking for.
If you go on a date, don't expect too much. A good piece of advice is to lower your expectations so you won't be disappointed or hurt in the process if something doesn't work out. Remember, there is no "wax on, wax off" when it comes to dating, even if it is a bisexual one, always be cool and honest. Start by going on not so important dates that don't mean much and explore your sexual identity. If this is your first time, it's good to let the other person know it. Honesty is your friend here and chances are that the other person will appreciate that. Take it slow and maybe he will help you get more comfortable, keep in mind that he is might be in the same position as you. If you find yourself enjoying the whole bi-sexual situation then just go for it and be happy about it. No matter what the outcome is, you must not have any regrets. Remember when it comes to pure pleasure, regret can do nothing but hold you back and lower the quality of your sex life. A bad sex life means an unhappy life and nobody wants that, especially the people that are close to you.
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