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So you meet a pretty and smart Thai lady on one of those free Thai personals which you are member? What's next? Are you coming over to Thailand to meet her in person? If that's the itinerary, good! Will this be your first time to meet or date a Thai lady? If yes, then there is no reason why you should feel anxious or awkward like many other Westerners. Thai girls are just like any other girl in the world. They want someone to treat them with respect, love them, cherish them and care for them. The general Thai woman is a person of good morals and still upholds traditional values especially when it comes to dating. For that, you will need to be careful when dating her. Keep note that you will be dating a woman of different culture and you will be visiting her in her own country, so it pays to be careful and mindful of cultural sensitivity or else you offend her indirectly. Here are a few things you should not do when dating Thai women: - Bringing her to the bar – Because by doing so, you're treating her as somewhat of a bar girl. Please do not invite her to meet you at a bar or night club. You only do that with bar girls.
- Confronting or even embarrassing her – Thai women are not like their Western counterparts who are often outspoken and blunt. Not only do they not like to be confronted but also they don't like to confront people. They also don't like to embarrass people and they don't like to be embarrassed too. Many Westerners would mistake such attitude as lacking of honesty and sincerity, but in Thai culture dictates that if you have nothing good to say, better just hold your tongue.
- Inviting her to go to bed with you – Most Thais are still conservative when it comes to love, sex and marriage so don't be shocked if your date declines your invitation – something you should not do in the first place. You should never invite them into having sex with you on dates, so try holding your pants until marriage.
- Being cheap – A Thai woman will treat you just like a Thai guy, so when on dates, expect to shoulder everything. Things are like that in Thai dating tradition. It's not just that you are a Westerner and you have the buck because as in every other culture, the guy is expected to pay for the date. So don't be “kee nee-ow” (cheap) and take her out to a fancy restaurant.
- Mentioning the topic of money – Aside from not mentioning about sex, you should not also talk about money. Thai ladies think it is low class when a guy brags about how much money he has and flaunts his wealth. Do you think you can win her love by showing off your wealth?
- Complaining about the country – Thailand has its own ups and downs and share of negative news but please do not complain about it when dating her. Thai ladies are generally aware of their country's plight but they don't need a foreigner to moan about it for them or remind her about it.
So these are the things that you should not do when dating Thai girls. Do not do such things on your date as to leave a good impression about yourself and Western guys in general. Be respectful and considerate and you will greatly enjoy your date. ThaiKisses is the ideal place to meet single Thai girls. Thailand's largest International Thai personals.
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