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Thanks for the Past Which Made Me Stronger by march lee
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Pain accompanies everyone’s grown up. The painful thing should be born to be hidden in heart until one day you find it won’t matter, and then you are mature. As time went on, you will get that point definitely, for you are strong enough to face those abstract but true feelings. Have you ever had the experience that you are relieved of being burst into tears when nobody is around? Yeah, I had that. For finally I put down things I care too much on the past and made a new decision. For so long a time, I was ashamed of being called the granddaughter of doctor yang, for that means humiliation in many people’s view to be a close relative of this despised man. He have scruffy appearance and loutish manners; he is stupid enough to help people who have no business with him to contempt his sons and daughters; he was so mean to the woman who loves him with her sincere and gives her fits of verbal abuse and beatings instead; he was indifferent to look on his granddaughters and grandsons carrying stiffened objects while he was just looking and looking and did not lend any helping hand through all the progress; he is cheeky to fawn other people’s ass while losing his own self-esteem and independent personality; he is arrogant to pretend that he is the most important person in the family, which imbued him with undisputed right to force his wife a blind and poor woman to do every slavish homework for him, that is the practice of “chauvinism”! That’s where I spent my childhood. You will never know the feeling of hatred to someone who should have been such close to you. In my view, he should deserve every curse I can image at that time! Well, I have said at the beginning, that he who will strong enough to face those unhappiness some day, he has known when to stop to fill his heart with hatred and sorrow, he has know how to be a better man for himself as well as for people he cherish. Several years later, my hatred gradually disappears as I have known that each person has his difficulty, we should not force others to live as what we expect them to be. We should respect them whatever, for every human being should have rights of choosing the way how to spend their daily life. We should respect that, that’s how we respect ourselves. My grandfather, yeah, I can call him grandfather now, is actually an poor old man and he is now a Buddhist believer, and counts his strands made of Buddhist beads, he finally have some change of being mean to people around him, especially my grandmother, it is this point that made me feel I can forgive him, I should put down all those immature thinking and be a generous person, past is past, I should let it go, if I don’t, then I am the mean person that I once hate most. Yeah, I goanna have roots before branches. Several days ago, my grandmother ask me for some earring findings and beads to make herself and her beautiful granddaughter some jewelry, this poor lady have time to enjoy her life after having so much sufferings of living without light. Now I enjoy my daily life, rainbow is behind the storm, there is no need to be a preoccupied person. Be happy, be generous. Someone said “The past can’t be rewritten, but it can make me stronger. I’ll be thankful for every chance, every heart break and every scar”. Yeah, that saying was for me, thanks, those every past day.
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