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Why relationships go wrong. As a psychic, therapist and life coach I have come across loads of people over the years who walk into bad relationships. Relationships that most people would turn their nose up at right at the beginning instead of getting together with the person and becoming a pair with them. These people often go around from one therapist or psychic to another about one relationship after another, never learning from their mistakes. They usually believe that all they have to do is present their situation to the therapist or psychic and that person will do all of the rest somehow waving a magic wand over the partner and changing them into what they want. Trying to turn a pig's ear into a silk purse! Unfortunately life is not like this. If a person does not love you or respect you or like you or want you to be happy then that is how it is and no psychic or therapist can change that. What they can do is get you to see where you went wrong and what you should do about it. Imagine that you took a job that did not suit you. The hours were bad, the pay was bad and the work was boring. Would you be able to change that by telling a psychic or therapist about it? No. You would still have to go to the same place, still deal with the same people, still do the same work, still work the same hours and still get the same pay. You could go to a thousand therapists or psychics and none of it would change. You could waste a lot of time on moaning on moaning about it. It is the same with relationships. If your partner does not care and treats you badly no matter what you say or do you will not change their attitude. If they have a problem like drinking too much or gambling you can insist they get help, you can threaten that you will end it if they do not, if you are sensible you will tell them that it is finished until they have got rid of this problem, but if you merely nag them or try to order them about and be bossy with them they can ignore you and carry on as they are, and this is what usually happens. In most cases these people enjoy their failings and addictions and would rather carry on with them than listen to you or change. But you should also look at why they behave as they do. And give them an incentive to change. When a man is constantly flirting and wanting to cheat on his wife the why is usually that he should be single, he is not cut out to be in a committed relationship, not with her or anyone else. He wants the single life but with the benefits of the married life. He does not love his wife! He may say he does, but he does not. The wife should look at all of this and not just complain. If she tells him that he has to stop flirting and cheating to be with her that won't mean a thing to him. He prefers flirting and cheating. He may promise to stop but carry on behind her back and hide it from her. But he has no real motivation to stop. He enjoys it too much. At this point she has to decide whether or not to stay with him. She is the one who has to make a decision and change then not him. When you weigh up what you want from life and you say to yourself that you want a committed loyal partner then you can either change your mind and decide to put up with it or you can stick to your guns and walk away - the choice is yours not theirs. If you decide to put up with it then stop going to psychics and therapists it is pointless, just wasting your time and money. If you wish to consult a good online clairvoyant readings they can pre empt the problems that can come later and decide whether it is best to walk away now rather than wait for things to get worse. But many people are not able to do that and blindly carry on hoping for the best and assuming it will all work out alright in the end simply because they want it to. Look at famous people who have married over and over again. People want to marry a famous rich person, but it does not guarantee that the famous and rich person chose wisely or married for the right reasons. In many ways it might be more likely they end up divorced because it is easier to walk away when you have a lot of money. I've often spoken to clients who would love to separate or get divorced or leave but have to stay where they are due to lack of funds. accurate psychic readings online Other excellent new specialised sites on this subject include paranormal forum and ask agony aunts online and written email readings
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