How To Approach Women And Start A Fun Conversation

I have actually watched extremely introverted students of mine, who were formerly too anxious to talk to women and clueless about how to approach women, turn into "approach masters" who were able to meet new girls every day (even while simply walking down the street!) and frequently score phone numbers, dates and even one-night stands.

But a guy's level of self-confidence can take a major hit -- and that dreaded "approach anxiety" can come seeping back in -- when he is faced with the task of approaching an extremely gorgeous stunner.I'm not referring to a girl who is "cute" or "kinda hot." I'm talking about an absolute BEAUTY. You know, the kind of stunner who, when she walks into a room, causes every guy in the surrounding area to stop and look.

So is there a way to heighten your chance of great results with this kind of babe?The answer to this, actually, is not that complicated: you're doing to make the most of the exact same approach techniques that I tell my students to use with any woman, but after you use one of my "transition" techniques to engage her in the conversation, are going to use two awesome techniques -- Cold Reads and Teases -- so that her extreme good looks won't even be a factor.

What are Teases and Cold Reads? Well, they're two very powerful techniques that you should use when you flirt with women. Basically, these are a couple of my favorite conversational "weapons."

For right now, the short definition is that Teases are playful things you say to women to "mess with them" a little bit, and plant the idea in their mind that you're NOT intimidated or super-impressed by them.

Whenever you tease a hottie (the RIGHT way), you're treating her as you would act towards an old buddy -- joking around, not taking things too seriously. You act this way around old friends because you are comfortable with them. And so, when you tease a hot babe, you're implying that you are totally at ease with her. She doesn't "faze" you.

This is the opposite of how most guys behave around a super hot girl. This dude can't even carry on a normal conversation because he's so afraid of saying the WRONG thing and screwing it up!

Now, as for Cold Reads, these are really powerful. Basically, you "read" her and tell her something about herself -- as if you've got psychic powers and understand her on a deeper level.

A good Cold Read makes you look extraordinarily perceptive and it immediately establishes a bond between you and the stunner. But the really clever thing about Cold Reads is that they apply to virtually anyone. You're telling her something about herself that SOUNDS accurate, but the same statement would apply to just about anyone you used it on.

So, the approach will begin with an effective opener. Then you'll use a Transition (or "Bridge") tactic to get the conversation onto the right type of theme. And then, you will discreetly use Teases and Cold Reads.

TEASE: "Y'know, Cindy, I think I misjudged you at first. I can tell there's more to you than meets the eye. It's just too bad you're not my type..." (then change the topic)

And here's a Cold Read: "You know, Cindy, I'm sure that most people get the wrong idea about you when they see you for the first time. You have this tough exterior, but I know it's only because you've been hurt in the past by someone who you really trusted. Since then, you've been cautious about letting new people get close to you. But the funny thing is, they don't realize what a sweet, sincere, sensitive person you truly are."

This Cold Read works exceptionally well with really sexy females because they are often self-conscious about how people perceive them. No woman wants to be seen as a shallow, hot "bimbo." These really sexy females can be very insecure, actually -- and they are often eager to be appreciated for deeper qualities beyond their looks, such as their personality, their sense of humor, hidden talents, etc.)

It really isn't difficult to learn how to approach women. If you combine these strategies with other effective conversational strategies, you have the formula for a super-fun conversation that will set off all of her "attraction switches" and drive up her interest and curiosity. Getting her phone number will be guaranteed -- and from that point on, you'll be able to guide this wherever you want it to go. Throughout my long career as a dating instructor, I have showed countless of men how to approach women in all types of situations. Many of these guys have been fantastically successful. I've seen shy guys who were scared to approach girls turn into "approach machines" who suddenly began to meet new women every day -- and got more phone numbers than they knew what to do with!

It's been enjoyable to watch very quiet students of mine, who were once scared to talk to females and clueless about how to approach women, turn into "approach masters" who could meet new girls on a daily basis (even just walking down the street!) and continually score phone numbers, dates and even one-night stands.

However, a man's sense of "approach confidence" can really take a hit when he finds himself wanting to walk up and talk to an extraordinarily fine-looking woman.I'm not talking about a run-of-the-mill female here; I'm talking about a stone-cold stunner. You know, the kind of stunner who, when she walks into a room, causes every guy in the surrounding area to stop and stare.

So is there a way to boost up your probability of strong results with this kind of hottie?Well, the answer is actually quite simple: you're doing to make use of the exact same approach techniques that I tell my students to use with any girl, but after you use one of my "transition" techinques to engage her in the conversation, you use Teases and Cold Reads to eliminate her "hotness factor" and in fact use it to your advantage.

So what are Cold Reads and Teases, exactly? Well, they're two very powerful techniques that you should use when you flirt with women. In essence, these are a couple of my favorite conversational "weapons."

For the purposes of this article, I'll just tell you real quick that Teases are things that you say to women in a playful way, that plant a very important idea in their subconscious: that you are NOT an average dude who is bowled over and dumbfounded by how hot she is.

If you tease a woman the right way -- remember it's about being PLAYFUL, not insufferable -- you're framing the interaction as if you are already familar and comfortable with her, which encourages her to treat you in the same manner. You act this way around old friends because you are comfortable with them. By using Teases with a sexy stunner, in a strategic way, you are showing that you're not fazed by her beauty and you are relating to her as a normal person.

Of course, this is exactly the OPPOSITE of how the typical dude behaves when he is talking to a gorgeous babe. This guy can't even carry on a normal conversation because he's so afraid of saying the WRONG thing and screwing it up!

Now, as for Cold Reads, these are really cool. Basically, you "read" her and tell her something about herself -- as if you've got psychic powers and understand her on a deeper level.

When you use an effective Cold Read, it makes you look like an extremely perceptive guy who "gets" her -- and this can create a powerful bond, very fast. But the really clever thing about Cold Reads is that they apply to virtually anyone. You're telling her something about herself that SOUNDS accurate, but the same statement would apply to just about anyone you used it on.

So, the encounter will begin with an effective opener. Then you'll use a Transition (or "Bridge") tactic to get the conversation onto the right type of subject. And then, you will discreetly use Teases and Cold Reads.

Example of a Tease: "Cindy, I gotta say, I misjudged you at first. I can sense that there is a lot more to you than meets the eye...it's too bad you aren't my type." (Then, you change the focus and leave her wondering WHY you just said that...)

And here's a Cold Read: "You know, Cindy, I'm sure that most guys get the wrong idea about you when they see you for the first time. You have this tough exterior, but I know it's only because you've been hurt in the past by someone who you really trusted. Since then, you've been cautious about letting new people get close to you. But the funny thing is, they don't realize what a sensitive, sweet person you truly are."

This Cold Read works exceptionally well with really sexy girls because they are often self-conscious about how people perceive them. No woman wants to be seen as a shallow, hot "bimbo." These really sexy females can be very insecure, actually -- and they are often looking to be appreciated for deeper qualities beyond their looks, such as their personality, their sense of humor, hidden talents, and so forth.)

Honestly, it isn't hard to learn how to approach women. If you merge these techniques with other effective conversational strategies, you have the blueprint for an interaction that will trigger all of her "attraction switches" and and make her genuinely interested and attracted in you. Scoring her phone number will be no problem at all -- and from that point on, you'll be in charge of steering this wherever you want it to go. Over the course of my years as a dating coach, I have taught literally hundreds of dudes how to approach women in every situation you can think of. A lot of my students have been insanely successful. I've seen shy dudes who were scared to try to talk to women turn into "approach machines" who all of a sudden began to meet new girls all the time (even while walking down the street!) -- and got more phone numbers than they knew what to do with!

It's been satisfying to watch extremely shy students of mine, who were previously too anxious to talk to hot chicks and clueless about how to approach women, turn into "approach fearless approach experts" who could meet new girls on a daily basis (even while simply walking down the street!) and regularly rack up digits, dates and even hook-ups the same night.

However, a guy's level of self-confidence can take a serious hit -- and that old "approach anxiety" can come creeping back in -- when he is faced with the task of approaching an exceptionally beautiful chick.I'm not talking about an ordinary female here; I'm talking about a stone-cold stunner. You know, the kind of girl who, when she strolls into a room, causes every guy in the area to stop and stare.

The answer, really, is quite simple: you use the same approach techinques that I recommend you use with any female, but after you use one of my "transition" moves to engage her in the conversation, you use Teases and Cold Reads to NEUTRALIZE her "hotness factor" and in fact use it to your advantage.

What are Teases and Cold Reads? Well, they're two very powerful moves that you should use when you flirt with women. In essence, these are a couple of my favorite conversational "weapons."

For right now, the short definition is that Teases are playful things you say to women to "mess with them" a little bit, and establish that you're NOT intimidated or super-impressed by them.

If you tease a girl (the RIGHT way), you're framing the conversation as if you are already familar and comfortable with her, which encourages her to feel the same way with you. When you're hanging out with someone you've known for a long time, you're of course going to tease and joke around with that person. By using Teases with a hot babe, in a strategic way, you are showing that you're not fazed by her attractiveness and you are relating to her as a normal person.

Of course, this is exactly the OPPOSITE of how the typical dude acts when he is talking to a gorgeous hottie. The average guy can't even carry on a fun, interesting conversation because he's so WORRIED about saying the wrong thing!

As for Cold Reads, these are STATEMENTS that you make to a woman about herself. It's as if you're playing "psychic" and telling her something about herself that no other guy in the room would ever guess.

When you use an effective Cold Read, it makes you look like an extremely perceptive guy who "gets" her -- and this can create a powerful bond, very fast. And the clever thing about an effective Cold Read statement is that they apply to virtually any woman. Whether you say it to your sister, or to a hottie at the nightclub, she's going to nod her head and agree with your "read .

So, the interaction will begin with an effective opener. Then you'll use a Transition (or "Bridge") tactic to get the conversation onto the right type of subject. And then, you will tactfully use Teases and Cold Reads.

Example of a Tease: "Cindy, I gotta say, I misjudged you at first. I can sense that there is a lot more to you than meets the eye...it's too bad you aren't my type." (Then, you change the subject and leave her wondering WHY you just said that...)

And here's a Cold Read: "You know, Cindy, I'm sure that most guys get the wrong idea about you when they see you for the first time. You have this tough exterior, but I know it's only because you've been hurt in the past by someone who you really trusted. Since then, you've been cautious about letting new people get close to you. But the funny thing is, they don't realize what a sensitive, sweet person you really are."

(This Cold Read works especially well with beautiful females, because they are often concerned that people are ONLY judging them based on their looks. Beautiful women are often a lot more insecure than you would think, and would like to be recognized for their OTHER qualities -- their intelligence, sense of humor, personality, etc.)

Honestly, it isn't difficult to learn how to approach a woman. When you merge these strategies with other effective conversational moves, you have the recipe for a conversation that will trigger all of her "attraction switches" and and make her genuinely interested and attracted in you. Getting her phone number will be guaranteed -- and where you take it from there is up to you.

Now before we go any further, please heed this warning...

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