How To Approach A Woman And Make Her Feel Attracted To You

I have actually seen extremely shy students of mine, who were once scared to talk to girls and clueless about how to approach women, transform into "approach masters" who could meet new women on a daily basis (even while simply shopping at the mall!) and always obtain digits, dates and even hook-ups the same night.

But any guy's confidence can be traumatized when he sees an incredibly sexy girl that he wants to walk up to and initiate a conversation with.I'm not referring to a woman who is "cute" or "kinda hot." I'm talking about an absolute BEAUTY. The kind of babe who makes every guy stop and stare when she walks into the room.

So what is the best way to walk up to a woman like THAT?The answer to this, actually, is not that difficult: you use the same approach techniques that I advocate you use with any woman, but soon after you use one of my "bridging" moves to get her engaged in the conversation with you, you use Teases and Cold Reads to eliminate her "hotness factor" and in fact use it to your advantage.

So what are Cold Reads and Teases, precisely? Well, they're two very powerful tactics that you should use when you flirt with women. Really, these are two of my favorite conversational "weapons."

For the purposes of this article, I'll just tell you real quick that Teases are things that you say to women in a playful way, that instill a very important idea in their minds: that you are NOT a predictable dude who is bowled over and dumbfounded by how gorgeous she may be.

If you tease a woman the correct way -- remember it's about being PLAYFUL, not insufferable -- you're treating her as you would treat an old friend -- joking around, not taking things too seriously. You act this way around old friends because you are comfortable with them. By using Teases with a hot girl, in a strategic way, you are showing that you're not fazed by her good looks and you are relating to her as a normal person.

This is the opposite of how most guys behave around a super hot girl. This dude can't even carry on a normal conversation because he's so frightened of saying the WRONG thing and screwing it up!

Now, as for Cold Reads, these are really awesome. Basically, you "read" her and tell her something about herself -- as if you've got psychic powers and understand her on a deeper level.

When you use an effective Cold Read, it makes you look like an extremely perceptive guy who "gets" her -- and this can create a powerful bond, in a short amount of time. But the really clever thing about Cold Reads is that they apply to virtually anyone. You're telling her something about herself that SOUNDS accurate, but the same statement would apply to just about anyone you used it on.

So, the encounter will begin with an effective opener. Then you'll use a Transition (or "Bridge") tactic to get the conversation onto the right type of theme. And then, you will tactfully use Teases and Cold Reads.

TEASE: "Y'know, Cindy, I think I got the wrong idea about you at first. I can tell there's more to you than meets the eye. It's just too bad you're not my type..." (then change the topic)

COLD READ: "Y'know something Cindy, I can tell that a lot of people get the wrong idea about you when they first see you. You have this sort of cold exterior, but it's because you've been hurt before by someone that you trusted, and since then you've been kinda cautious about meeting new people. But they don't realize what a sweet, sensitive person you really are underneath."

This Cold Read works exceptionally well with really beautiful females because they are often self-conscious about how people perceive them. No woman wants to be seen as a shallow, hot "bimbo." These really hot girls can be very insecure, actually -- and they are often looking to be appreciated for deeper qualities beyond their looks, such as their personality, their sense of humor, things they are knowledgable about, and so forth.)

It really isn't difficult to learn how to approach women. If you blend these techinques with other effective conversational moves, you have the formula for a super-fun conversation that will trigger all of her "attraction switches" and and make her genuinely interested and attracted in you. Getting her phone number will be guaranteed -- and from that point on, you'll be able to steer this wherever you want it to go. Over the course of my long career as a dating instructor, I've showed countless of guys how to approach women in every imaginable scenario. A lot of my students have been exceptionally successful. I've seen shy students who were scared to walk up to women turn into "approach machines" who suddenly began to meet new women every day -- and got more phone numbers than they knew what to do with!

It's been enjoyable to see extremely introverted students of mine, who were once too intimidated to talk to women and clueless about how to approach women, turn into "approach machines" who were able to meet new girls every day (even while simply walking down the street!) and always score phone numbers, dates and even one-night stands.

But a guy's level of confidence can take a lethal hit -- and that old "approach anxiety" can come creeping back in -- when he is faced with the challenge of approaching an extremely gorgeous woman.I'm not referring to a young woman who is "cute" or "kinda hot." I'm talking about an absolute BEAUTY. You know, the kind of stunner who, when she strolls into a room, causes every guy in the area to stop and look.

So what is the best way to approach a woman like THAT?Well, the answer is actually quite simple: you're doing to utilize the exact same approach concepts that I tell my guys to use with any woman, but soon after you use one of my "bridging" tactics to get her engaged in the interaction with you, are going to use two awesome strategies -- Cold Reads and Teases -- so that her extreme beauty won't even be a factor.

What are Teases and Cold Reads? Well, they're two very dominant strategies that you should use when you flirt with women. Really, these are a couple of my favorite conversational "weapons."

For now, the short explanation is that Teases are playful things you say to women to "mess with them" a little bit, and establish that you're NOT unsettled or super-impressed by them.

If you tease a woman the correct way -- remember it's about being PLAYFUL, not repugnant -- you're treating her as you would treat an old friend -- joking around, not taking things too seriously. You act this way around old friends because you are comfortable with them. And so, when you tease a scorching-hot woman, you're planting the seed in her mind that you are totally relaxed with her. Nothing about her fazes you.

This is the opposite of how most dudes behave around a super hot girl. The regular guy can't even carry on a fun, interesting conversation because he's so WORRIED about saying the wrong thing!

As for Cold Reads, these are STATEMENTS that you make to a girl about herself. It's as if you're playing "psychic" and telling her something about herself that no other dude in the room would ever guess.

When you use an effective Cold Read, it makes you look like an extremely perceptive guy who "gets" her -- and this can create a powerful bond, very fast. But the really clever thing about Cold Reads is that they apply to virtually anyone. You're telling her something about herself that SOUNDS accurate, but the same statement would apply to just about anyone you used it on.

So, the interaction will begin with an effective opener. Then you'll use a Transition (or "Bridge") tactic to get the conversation onto the right type of topic. And then, you will tactfully use Teases and Cold Reads.

Example of a Tease: "Cindy, I gotta say, I misjudged you at first. I can sense that there is a lot more to you than meets the eye...it's too bad you aren't my type." (Then, you change the topic and leave her wondering WHY you just said that...)

And here's a Cold Read: "You know, Cindy, I'm sure that most people get the wrong idea about you when they first meet you. You have this tough exterior, but I know it's only because you've been hurt in the past by someone who you really trusted. Since then, you've been cautious about letting new people get close to you. But the funny thing is, they don't realize what a sweet, sincere, sensitive person you truly are."

(This Cold Read is very effective with stunning females, because they are often concerned that people are ONLY judging them based on their looks. Gorgeous girls are often a lot more insecure than you would think, and like to be appreciated for their OTHER qualities -- their intelligence, sense of humor, personality, etc.)

Honestly, it isn't difficult to learn how to approach women. If you bring together these tactics with other effective conversational methods, you have the recipe for a highly positive interaction that will trigger all of her "attraction switches" and drive up her interest and curiosity. Getting her phone number will be guaranteed -- and from that point on, you'll be able to steer this wherever you want it to go. Throughout my years as a dating coach, I have taught countless of guys how to approach women in every imaginable scenario. Many of these guys have been highly successful. I've seen shy dudes who were scared to walk up to women turn into "approach machines" who suddenly began to meet new women all the time (even while walking down the street!) -- and got more phone numbers than they knew what to do with!

It's been rewarding to watch incredibly shy students of mine, who were formerly too anxious to talk to girls and clueless about how to approach women, turn into "approach masters" who could meet new women every day (even while simply walking down the street!) and regularly obtain digits, dates and even hook-ups the same night.

However, a man's sense of "approach confidence" can really take a hit when he finds himself wanting to walk up and talk to an exceptionally beautiful babe. You know, the kind of woman who, when she strolls into a room, causes every guy in the vicinity to stop and look.

So what is the best way to approach a girl like THAT?The answer to this, actually, is not that intricate: you're doing to employ the exact same approach tactics that I tell my guys to use with any female, but soon after you use one of my "bridging" techniques to get her engaged in the conversation with you, are going to use two special techniques -- Cold Reads and Teases -- so that her extreme prettiness won't even be a factor.

I know you're probably wondering what Teases and Cold Reads are. Well, they're two very powerful moves that you should use when you flirt with women. Essentially, these are two of my favorite conversational "weapons."

For the purposes of this article, I'll just tell you real quick that Teases are things that you say to women in a playful way, that instill a very important idea in their minds: that you are NOT a typical guy who is bowled over and taken aback by how gorgeous she may be.

If you tease a woman the right way -- remember it's about being PLAYFUL, not insufferable -- you're treating her as you would treat an old buddy -- joking around, not taking things too seriously. You act this way around old friends because you are comfortable with them. By using Teases with a sexy babe, in a strategic way, you are establishing that you're not fazed by her good looks and you are relating to her as a normal person.

This is the opposite of how most guys behave around a super hot girl. This guy can't even carry on a normal conversation because he's so scared of saying the WRONG thing and messing it up!

Now, as for Cold Reads, these are really awesome. Basically, you "read" her and tell her something about herself -- as if you've got psychic powers and understand her on a deeper level.

When you use an effective Cold Read, it makes you look like an extremely perceptive guy who "gets" her -- and this can create a powerful bond, very fast. But the really clever thing about Cold Reads is that they apply to virtually anyone. You're telling her something about herself that SOUNDS deep, but the same statement would apply to just about anyone you used it on.

So after you approach a woman and use an effective opener to begin the conversation -- and there are dozens of these in my dating guide for men -- you'll use a Transition tactic to move things onto the right subject matter. Then, you can utilize Teases and Cold Reads:

TEASE: "Y'know, Cindy, I think I misjudged you at first. I can tell there's more to you than meets the eye. It's just too bad you're not my type..." (then change the topic)

COLD READ: "Y'know something Cindy, I can sense that a lot of people get the wrong idea about you when they first see you. You have this tough exterior, but it's because you've been hurt before by someone that you trusted, and since then you've been kinda cautious about meeting new people. But they don't realize what a sweet, sensitive person you really are underneath."

This Cold Read works especially well with really scorching-hot women because they are often self-conscious about how people perceive them. No woman wants to be seen as a shallow, hot "bimbo." These really hot females can be very insecure, actually -- and they are often looking to be appreciated for deeper qualities beyond their looks, such as their personality, their sense of humor, things they are knowledgable about, and so on.)

It really isn't difficult to learn how to approach a woman. Every time you combine these techinques with other effective conversational techniques, you have the recipe for an interaction that will set off all of her "attraction switches" and drive up her interest and curiosity. Getting her phone number will be guaranteed -- and from that point on, you'll be in charge of steering this wherever you want it to go.

Now before we go any further, please heed this warning...

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