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You have undoubtedly heard of "Alpha Males" before. Some men associate this phrase with the animal kingdom: the biggest, baddest monkey or lion that the others defer to and gets first crack at the food and the most desirable females. For other guys, the term Alpha Male has a negative meaning. It could mean the big jock who used to swagger around their campus, intimidating the underclassmen and getting the hottest girls. Or perhaps you work with an Alpha Male: a "man's man" who radiates confidence and energy, and always gets what he's after. Maybe he's difficult to work for, but you gotta respect the guy. Either way, most men suffer under the idea that some of us are born as Alpha Males, and the rest of us are predestined to be "shy guys" or "nice guys" who can only have the leftovers and are afraid to even approach women. The reality, though, is that we all have an Alpha Male inside of us. I'd like to give you several tips on how to start unleashing your Alpha side. These come from recent experiences in my life... the alpha male, Tip #1: Displaying your Alpha Male side means displaying confidence and charm with men AND women. Always build your social network! This is SO important. Look, I've seen lots of guys who study "pickup" because they want to learn how to become an Alpha Male. While some of these guys become more skilled and confident when they're around women, they still act like "Beta" guys when they're around other men -- especially Alpha Male whom they perceive to have higher status than they do. I know that when you go out, the main aim is to meet girls, but making new alliances with "Alpha" guys is going to help your long-term game. Make this a habit: when you're at a bar, club, or party -- and you see guys who have cool, positive energy and are having a good time (and getting attention from women) -- introduce yourself to them. Walk up to the coolest-looking dude in the room and tell him, "Bro, I'm impressed. The girls into you, what's your secret?" Chances are, this guy will be friendly towards you and he'll gladly share some wisdom. Now you've added a powerful friend and wingman to your social network. Expanding your network of Alpha Male friends (and wingmen) will have massive benefits. You will find yourself being invited to parties, bars and events that you normally wouldn't have known about. They might also know ladies they want to introduce you to. Also, when you surround yourself with cool Alpha friends it automatically raises your social status in the eyes of women. If you customarily go to the same old bars, with the same old friends of yours (and I'm assuming they are NOT the kind of guys who confidently approach hot women), I'd say it's time for you to step up your game and start hanging with guys who have an Alpha presence and will inspire and motivate you. the alpha male, Tip #2: The next piece of advice on how to become an Alpha Male is that you need to be decisive. Don't be wishy-washy. Women respect men who lay out a path for them to follow. This may sound a little bit chauvenistic, but it's the truth. She really doesn't want to have to decide which movie to go see, or where to have dinner tonight...you're actually making her a bit uncomfortable when you show indecisive behavior. A girl needs to feel that you able to provide emotional stability and security. When decisions need to be made, YOU need to step up and express how you think it should go. Even if it's as small as deciding where to go for coffee or dinner. She might not always agree, but she will respect the fact that you have a definite opinion. WEAK MOVE: "Um, if you're not busy, maybe we could hang out sometime and do something..." On the other hand, an Alpha Male might say this: "So what's your favorite funny movie of all time? I'll rent it and we can watch it at my place on Friday night, while you sample some of my cooking." Or, "You told me that you love Italian food. I know about this great restaurant that's a hidden gem, and I want to show it to you. Let's do it Friday night at o'clock." the alpha male, Tip #3: Leave them wanting more. The top Alpha Males - whether it's a business mogul, or a Hollywood star - are very busy people. They simply are not going to give you unlimited amounts of time. Your mindset should be the same with women. YOU want to be the one ending the conversation first, whether it's a conversation at a bar, or a phone call to set up a date. The average guy will talk... and talk... until the woman finally says, "I have to go find my friend" or "it's was nice talking to you, but I need to be up early tomorrow..." You should always have a goal in mind when you talk to a girl, and achieve that objective before the conversation ends. At a bar, the objective might be to get her phone number and email address. If you're ringing her phone, the aim could be to establish when you're going to see her next. The bottom line is, you've got to have a plan, a plan, and a way to execute it. NEVER drag it out to the point where she has to leave first. She'll assume you've got nothing else going on in your life. When YOU end it first, you leave her wondering... "hmm, he isn't like most guys I've met. What other things are going on in his life? What other girls is he seeing? Why is he always too busy to talk on the phone?" Now before we proceed to the next level, please heed this warning... Our FREE seduction manual, which we invite you to download, is jam-packed with tips on how to become an alpha male. But we ask you to please use this information responsibly! These are quite simply the most powerful methods if you want to learn the alpha male who makes women feel powerful, undeniable attraction. Download this free book now and get started on your path to becoming the Ultimate Alpha Male that women love.
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