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Marriage is the biggest fantasy of one’s life, it is the day which every guy or girl dreams of from the very beginning of their life. The rituals and customs related to marriages are in India, are so much filled with traditions and values, that any body when looks at them being performed, and always imagines him at the same position. Marriage is the most beautiful feeling one comes across, in his lifetime. Though, the fear involved in it for loosing you freedom as a bachelor is always there, but still the happiness behind the nervousness is unexplainatory. Marriage is usually compared with the sweet ‘laddoo’, which if one repents in both the cases, even if eaten or not. That is why our forefathers have said, better regret after eating. Marriage is in every way the starting of a new phase of life, it is also said to be the second birth of human being. In this phase, he is made to realise the responsibilities of being a man, and is loaded with the family responsibilities. But slowly with the changing times, the value and the importance of marriage as a bond is loosing somewhere. Youngsters these days are not taking the relation of marriage seriously, in earlier days, where it was considered as a bond for seven lives, now- a- days, the life of a marriage does not even last for one birth. Married couples, should understand the values and the sanctity involved with their bond, they should give equal contribution in leading a successful married life. Not much problems are seen in case of love marriages if the expectations are handled properly and the inflow and outflow of love and support is equally managed. Also, in love marriages, couples share a good understanding between them which helps in resolving fights and ego issues. Following are some of the tips which one should keep in mind, in case of arranged marriages before and after the marriage ceremony, to lead a happy and contended married life: ? Before the fixation of the marriage, when the couple meets, proper time should be given to both the girl and the guy, to understand each other and test their compatibility quotient. ? Past relations should never reflect in a person’s present and future life. The only way to get rid of all the doubts and confusions is to be crystal clear in terms of your past relations. This not only helps in earning trust, but also builds confidence of one partner on the other. ? The courtship period, i.e. from the time of engagement to the marriage time, should be properly utilised to know each other in detail, their likes and dislikes, to help in leading a happy married life, ? The marriage should not be attached with the dowry factor; it brings greediness, which has resulted in a lot of break- ups and divorces. ? The couple should in every way complement each other, especially in professional terms, because being high or lower in occupational status can lead to indifference and competitiveness in the couple, which can prove to be fatal for the relation of the married couple. ? The bride and the groom should share great understanding between each other, and should clarify each and everything, before raising questions and start getting into a fight. ? The contribution for resolving matters should be made from both the sides, as a result of understanding shared between the couple. ? Lot of interrogation and possessiveness from either of the sides can lead to the irritation and problems in the married life, so space should be provided by both the bride and groom to let the other person lead his own personal life. Thus, by keeping these factors in mind and many more, one can pave his way towards a successful and happy married life. Author Bio Gurleen Kaur writes on behalf of Jeevansathi.com, which is India’s fastest growing matrimonial website, provides online Indian matrimonial classified services. Jeevansathi.com enables users to create an Indian matrimony profile on the website and allow prospective grooms and brides to contact each other. Users can search for profiles through advanced search options on the website. Users can avail free registration and make initial contact with each other through services available on Jeevansathi.com via Chat, SMS, and e-mail.
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