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?Pick up artists have been using these routines for ages to achieve dating success, and you can too! Let's discuss a few of them. There's nothing supernatural or magical about these routines - they're basically just stories that build you up into someone a woman wants to get to know better. Some routines have been beaten to death, like "the cube" and "the jealous girlfriend." We're not going to waste time on these. The Present Routine - You can have a lot of fun with this and get a lot of information that you can parlay into other conversation topics. It couldn't be easier - just go up to a group of girls and let them know that a business crisis called your buddy out of town unexpectedly. He's given you money - say $200, or whatever - to get his girlfriend a birthday present. The problem is, you don't know what to get her, and so you're hoping they'll give you some advice. This approach is beautifully simple - whatever the girls suggest you should get your buddies girlfriend, that's something they themselves would like! The girl who suggests a day at a spa is a girl who herself loves to be pampered, for instance. The girl who tells you to buy expensive perfumes and accessories, designer name things like Prada and Guess, is a girl who herself also likes those designer-name things. Think about how useful this information can be - especially if you're patient and work at it, getting the girls to give you advice beyond the obvious. What if a girl tells you to get the girlfriend a book of poetry by a particular author? Dating for Dummies - A great icebreaker and way to get women to feel real comfortable around you, this has got to be one of the funniest PUA routines I've ever run into. You need to get one of those terrible dating books - something with a title like, say, "Dating for Dummies." Carry it with you into a club or anywhere else you'll meet women. Open it to the section titled "Pickup Lines you Should Never Use." This is when you each find out about the other's sense of humor. Go up to a woman you'd like to get to know better and, holding the book in front of you so she can see the title, start reading some of the bad pickup lines out loud. Don't be bashful, go for the gusto! The worse the line, the better it is for your purpose - look for "Do you come here often?" and "Hey there, baby, what's your sign?" If she's got any sense of humor at all, the girl will laugh and let her guard down. You can even put on an innocent air and ask her if it "worked." These routines have been tried and refined by true pick up artists, and should help you get the ball rolling. Getting into a conversation with her, though, wasn't really your goal. Your goal was to establish a good rapport with her - enough so that you can ask her out, or at least call her later. The best way to establish rapport is to share something personal - a meaningful incident at work, or a story from your childhood. It's a natural response - when you open up to women personally, they'll open up to you and feel a connection with you. It's not my style to lie about who I am, and I hope that's true for you as well. That's why I'm not going to share any of the many canned PUA routines I've heard. I'm sure you've got friends who are constantly telling stories about things they've done, places they've been, and the like. You've probably done many of the same things and been to loads of different places yourself - so think of incidents in your life and travels that illustrate the sort of great guy you are and take the time to make good stories of them! You're a PUA-in-training. As such, you should be building your own routines based on your own life experiences. Put the routines here to work - try them out yourself a few times and get a feel for them and for approaching women. At that point, you'll likely have some good original stories of your own that you can craft into good PUA routines. If you liked these PUA Routines and you want to learn more cool ways to meet girls, check out the PUA Routines and Pick Up Secrets.
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