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For quite some time it was thought (by men) that most womens libido did not function with as much virility as theirs did. Women were often seen as dainty, innocent, passive, creatures who were not really interested in sex. Although it may be true that most women may not have the same kinds of urges that men do, as frequently as men do, there are a number of women who truly enjoy sex and need it and want it just as badly (if not more so in some cases) as men. A woman's sexual desire is connected to their menstrual cycle. Some women have an increase in sexual desire during the few days before she ovulates. Testosterone is a hormone that tends to be associated with all things male, but women have this hormone as well. If a woman's testosterone level is balanced, she is not as likely to experience fluctuations in her interest in having sex. Women with high testosterone levels are more likely to be the ones who are most interested in having sex regularly. High levels of progesterone make it very difficult for some women to achieve orgasm, this may be one reason some women are not very interested in having sex. It's usually very easy for men to have orgasms. For most women, it takes quite a bit more time for them to climax than it does a man. Men are visual creatures, meaning they are stimulated sexually by the things that they see. Women tend to be turned on more by touch. Because sex almost always ends with an orgasm for the man, it's something that most men find pleasure in doing all the time. Sex doesn't always bring about an orgasm for a women. Most women have to be very comfortable with their partner, and able to tell that partner what they need before they will experience an orgasm. Being severely overweight or underweight can have negative effects on a woman's sexual interest as well. Body image aside, the disruption in levels of certain hormones can make a women want to avoid sex altogether. Women who lead extremely stressful lives may also find it more difficult to achieve orgasm because they can't relax their minds and bodies enough to let it happen. Learning how to manage stress and relax may be quite helpful to women who have a low sex-drive. Having a healthy body on the inside may also help to make sex a more pleasurable experience. It's well known that during the time of menopause, a lot of women tend to lose a lot of their desire for intercourse. This can be due to the drop in estrogen levels that may make vaginal dryness an issue. Having sex may become pretty painful and not enjoyable at all. There are many lubricants available that may help combat this problem in women who are suffering from vaginal dryness, not only when it comes to having intercourse, but also during the day. There should always be a bit of moisture inside the vagina. If there is not, it can lead to irritation on the outside. Psychological problems can also make a women not want to have sex. Trauma such as being raped, or consistently abused in past relationships can lead to trust issues with future partners. Trust is one very important part of any healthy sexual relationship. In order for a women to truly enjoy the activity of sex, she has to feel comfortable with her own body and trust the person she is with. If she has been violated in the past, it may take some work to get to a place where trust can be established. A lot of women tend to think that sex can be a way of making a man fall in love with her. This of course, is not the case. A woman may hate having sex, but she continues to engage in it, thinking that it's going to eventually lead to her finding the man of her dreams. If she is good enough in bed, and pleases him in ways that no other woman can, surely he will never want to leave. It doesn't work that way. It's very difficult for most women not to get emotionally involved with the man they are sharing their bodies with. Men, on the other hand, are programed to spread their seed to as many partners as they can to ensure that their genes go on. Most have no problem going from one women to the next, without forming any attachments whatsoever. Sex that results in an orgasm, feels good, and men tend to get to this part much more often than women. This doesn't mean that in order for sex to be enjoyable for a women, she has to have an orgasm. Many women find pleasure simply in being the one who gives pleasure to their man. However, this can get boring after a while. A woman who experiences orgasms just as often as her partner, is much more likely to want to have sex with that partner. Some women refuse to talk about their sexual desires. They may not think it's "lady-like" to assert herself and let her partner know exactly what she needs, what she wants and how she wants it. This is one reason why a lot of relationships fail. Communication is extremely important in all areas of a healthy relationship, this includes the area of sex. Certain medications may also have a hand in decreasing a woman's sexual appetite. A lot of anti-depressants and drugs that affect emotions are known to sometimes cause a drop in sexual satisfaction. Achieving an orgasm may become more difficult or not possible at all. It's important to talk to your doctor about this, if it's something that is of concern to you. Having sex with someone you love and trust can be one of the most exciting, pleasurable experiences of a woman's life. When a womens libido changes all of a sudden, and either increases or decreases, it may be time to talk to a doctor. In general, it's perfectly fine for a woman to want to have sex just as much as a man does. It's also fine if she's not that interested in it. It all depends on the woman and the reasons behind the way she feels about sex. 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