During the days of financial crisis, my friend worked for an investment bank in Hong Kong. In a Friday afternoon, his boss told him: “this is the last day you work for our company. In order to pass the financial crisis, we need to lay off the staffs. You are the one of them; I hope you can understand our plight.” His boss just gave an hour to clean up his things. The company sent an assistant to help him to arrange everything, but he knew that assistant just a man who supervised him whether he took things from company or not. He held back tears in his eyes, and put the things into cars without any words. That means he had to leave Hong Kong. Two years ago, this company invited him to join them with a high wages. So he left his familiar hometown to Hong Kong to pursue a nice life. A year ago, he took his wife and child to here too. The company rent a big house for them, and his members of family just adapted the environment here… how could he to tell his wife that he lost the job? How can he tell his son that the car and house not belong to them forever? In an hour, his life fell down from the heaven to hell. I met him in a party, and he said to me: “although the situation of employment is serious, I still have the confidence to find a job.” During the time of talking, many people played a joke to him: “maybe you have to have a future-telling.” I said unconsciously: “this time I have a bad luck.” he smiled to me: “maybe this year you have some troubles, but you are not the worst one. Comparing with other people, you are lucky. Do not have the thinking of victims to see the world. At once, I had the passive attitude too in a month. But a voice in my mind told me that this attitude was not good for me, so I need to keep up my spirits. Comparing with the people who are still suffering from the hungry and wars, I had no right to say I had a bad luck.” now I can understand his words. We just have not found the way to the future. If we gave up the thinking of victims, we will find the key to open the door of future. When Tory was told the secret to get wow gold, Rift Platinum and rift gold, he almost cannot believe it. But it is true.
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