When one visits counselor NYC, he comes across number of people and one can see a lady and a boy too. Counselor will observe these both people, as well. The mother will be holding the hand of the boy. The boy will be looking here and there, while his mother will be staring at him and would be pulling him towards her to sit down. The Counselor NYC will understand what the case is. The boy misbehaves a lot and he is quite stubborn, too. When both of them will enter in the hall for counseling then he will call the mother and speak to her first. The mother will start with describing that her son is quite stubborn and he has a really bad habit of breaking vases and glasses. He also spoils the electronic appliances often and she is really tired of his attitude. She would tell that the neighbors have also started to complain about him as he also breaks the wind screen of the cars. She has therefore brought her to the Counselor NYC. The Counselor NYC will then call the boy and he would challenge him to break the vase. He would give him time to break the flower vase by saying that he wants the vase broken when he comes back. The boy would get a little happy and then he will try to break it. When the Counselor NYC will come back after an hour then he will find the boy sitting at one corner of the room holding the vase in his hands. He would say that he wasn’t able to break the vase. Then the Counselor NYC will give him a hammer to break it and he would not be able to break the vase even then. The boy would now realize that there are such glasses too that cannot be broken easily. The counselor will then tell the boy that instead of using force on breaking glass, he should use force on something that is useful too. After this, the mother of the boy will be called and the counselor will ask the mother to ask the boy to do some part time, so that he might not have free time to destroy things. This will bring a world of change in the boy’s behavior. Even you are rich enough that you can feed more generations too, you should still persuade your child to work. The counselor will give some medicines to the boy, whom he will have to take for a month or so. The boy will seem a little embarrassed of being unable to break the glass. He would feel a little shy in front of his mother too because of that thing. When the boy will do some part time job then he will be able to meet new people and new environment and a change would be seen in his attitude, too. If this happens then no doubt, it is a positive change in him. In this way, gradually all bad habits of the boy will disappear. For more information, visit: spiral2grow Marriage Family Therapy, 260 Madison Avenue (8 Floor) New York, NY 10016 or Call us at: 917-692-3867 Allen King is an author for spiral2grow.com, one of the best marriage counselors in New York. He is writing articles on Counselor NYC, from past 2 years.
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