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Couples seem to be very much happy until they get kids. When a married couple gets kids, the responsibilities over the parents increase. They have to take care of their food, clothes, education and their future too. Difference of opinion lies everywhere but when it comes to children the parents end up in fighting with each other because of the issue. Among many of the patients in the Couples Therapist NYC center, mostly such couples also come who have a family of young children. Mother, father, a 15 year old son and an 18 year old daughter would come to the counseling center. The Couples Therapist NYC will first talk to the boy. He will ask how the parents behave and how is their relationship with each other. The boy will tell that his parents don’t talk to each other well and they fight quite often. Then the Couples Therapist NYC will call the girl. He will ask about the issue with her parents. She will tell that she has got a boyfriend which her mother does not like whereas her father has no issue with him. I want to marry him but my mother is against him. This is the main issue why my parents fight. After talking to the boy and the girl, the Couples Therapist NYC will call the parents. The father will say that the boy is their family friend and if his daughter likes him then he has no issue on their marriage. The mother will interrupt by saying that she does not want her daughter to marry him. The Couples Therapist NYC will give them another date on which they will be asked to come for the meeting. Then the therapist will call the boyfriend of the girl. He will ask him about his studies. The boy will hesitate a bit. But later he will tell that he is not getting good grades. The therapist will understand why the mother did not want her daughter to get married with her boyfriend. The boy will tell that he was a good student but now he is unable to get good grades. The Couples Therapist NYC will ask the boy that he wants to meet his mother. When the mother of the boy will hold a meeting with the therapist then he will ask her about her son’s grades. She will say that she has no idea about them. She would be say that he had always been good in studies therefore she does not ask him about his grades much. The therapist will say that do you know your son’s grades have fallen this semester? The mother will respond surprisingly by saying no. The therapist will ask the mother to pay attention on the studies of her son. She will be advised to find the reason why her son has shown such a result. When the mother will inquire about the grades, then this will push the son to study harder. For more information, visit: spiral2grow Marriage Family Therapy, 260 Madison Avenue , #8023, New York, NY 10016 or Call us at: 917-692-3867 Allen King is an author for spiral2grow.com, one of the best marriage counselors in New York. He is writing articles on Couples Therapist NYC, from past 2 years.
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