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Self esteem of a person is what they consider about themselves. A person who has low self-esteem would consider themselves useless. They would find their life boring and feel that they are not important, and their needs and wants matter to no one. Self esteem being low may be a result of many things. It may be because of the background in which a person grows up. It may be because of the child having continuous insults, being scolded by its parents that it is good for nothing. It may also be due to the fights between parents or one of them being unavailable. There are many factors that lead to self esteem being low, but whatever the cause, the results are very damaging. They may damage the complete happy life of a person. Not only will the person find themselves sad and lonely from inside, but it will also have an effect on their behavior with other people and their life. Let us look at some of the negatives of low self esteem. One of the common results of low self-esteem (in Denmark it's called behandle lavt selvværd)is lack of happiness in life. The person is not able to enjoy anywhere. This is mainly because they have this feeling inside that they are of no good. They remain sad, and so they become boring. Nobody enjoys their company. If they attend a party where every person is enjoying, they are the only person at one end, with a blank face. Not just this, such a person has a very rude attitude towards others. Because of their inner feeling, they cannot be good to somebody who shows care to them. They get arrogant and harsh, and get far from those who have love and care for them. They get filled with jealousy. Low self-esteem may also be result of the parents patting one child, and scolding the other again and again. That results in the inferiority complex and the person, when he grows up turns rude. He shoves away all the love and care people shower for them. In fact when such a person gets married, the opposite sex also has no interest in them, because they are a boring person. They are a person who has no interest and are seen complaining about things all the time. It is not just the social life that is affected of a person with low self-esteem, but this also has an effect on his/her career. When such a person would go for university admissions, he/she may be rejected by some very good universities, because of the lack of confidence. Later on, he/she may be rejected from jobs. That would have a very bad effects on his/her whole life. No matter how much he/she would study, he/she may end up being a loser. He/she would be a person from whom people would move away. Thus, it is actually the role of parents to make sure that their children has enough self esteem and confidence that he/she does not feel low in front of others. If you're a parent and you're worried if you've done enough for the self-esteem of your child, you can browse this site to make sure.
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