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The other reason which causes disturbance with the couples according to Couples Counsellor New York City if the act of unnecessary offering of helping hand. The other way is being too helpful, making to do things best and try to be in the good books of any person. Sometimes these acts are again mixed with signs of refusing help and overlapping with the sense of lacking of gratefulness. Now we come to the next form of the anger which is known as the aggressive anger which is more of active outrage and outburst and the symptoms are as various. There are some families according to Couples Counsellor New York City, where one of the couples have the tendency of bullying, and bullying is the first and the primary symptom of aggressive anger, where people threaten others, (rag them at times to death, which normally happens in many medical and engineering college particularly). Sometimes bullying includes acts like persecuting, pushing or shoving, using powers to oppress, shouting and as a whole in nut shell to say – playing on people’s weakness. Bullying also leads to destructiveness. The destruction is not only within the couples but also with the relation with the outside world. Because those who have the tendency to bully are filled with unnecessary inner rage and for the very moment gets clam not only by just tormenting a person but actually harming the person physically and at the same time destroying and items belonging to the person. Reckless driving, substance abuse, destroying or destroyed by any relationship are all part and parcel of aggressive bully. Another intense reason which is talked by Couples Counsellor New York City is Grandiosity. A beautiful word Grandiosity, which means to show off. This attitude not only gives birth to the since of mistrust amongst the family members and the outside world but brings out more of a deleting and a sour taste towards the person. Showing off is milder than the expression of Grandiosity. One can show off in particular surrounding, but the person who is in grandiosity is more involved in inner pain, sometimes, regrets which could not overcome, and sometimes a mixed feeling of self esteem. The manic behavior, according to Couples Counsellor New York City is again another form of aggressive and a mad behaviour. The maniacs start with very hurried speech, sometimes the anger is again expressed through fast walking / the speed of the walking shows all. Maniacs are filled with verbal abuse and vulgar jokes. They are not only in other evil practices like foul language , will full discrimination of people, planning and sometimes- if in power, loves punishing people, but also carries, the liking of criticizing and willingly labeling people, tarnishing ones reputation. They are the selfish lots who are always there to quench their needs, but ignoring others needs and wants and has the least of the capability of, adjusting with people around. The maniacs are the best example for unjust blaming, and accusing people for one’s own mistake, or blaming people for one’s own feeling and also, making general accusation. For more information, visit: spiral2grow Marriage Family Therapy, 260 Madison Avenue, #8023, New York, NY 10016 or Call us at: 917-692-3867. Moshe Ratson is an author of spiral2grow.com, one of the best health care company. He is writing articles on Couples Counselor New York city since long time. Click here for more info about Spiral2grow.com
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