 People always say that in order to have a strong foundation for a romantic relationship, it should start with friendship. We have friends, good friends, and also best friends. But not all the time our best friends are those who belong with the same sex as ours. No matter how close or how much we love our same sex best friends, there is still something that they can’t provide us, and that is precisely the reason why we find our best buddies from the opposite sex. The thing is, even in digital age where latest gadgets and liberal ideas seem to mushroom all the way to the top, a debate has always been present in the grounds of the genuineness of what we call friendship between the opposite sex. Now, the budding question is can a guy and a girl can be just plain friends, nothing more nothing less? YES THEY CAN While a lot of people think it can’t happen, people who think that it could happen also are with a considerable number. Friendship without any form of attraction can work, maybe you just enjoy each other’s company and share the same likes, hobbies, and interests, like maybe you both are smartphone enthusiasts or movie buffs. Like for example, colleagues who go in the same office everyday doing the same job, enjoy it all the more. That doesn’t mean that they go along well together that they like each other at once. They just relate to each other because each one knows what the other one goes through everyday. Therefore it may look like there is an attraction or a hidden desire brewing in their relationship, but the truth is, none. There is nothing but innocent friendship in between the lines. I’m pretty sure that you have a guy or girl friend that you are very close with but you are quite sure that you are not in any way attracted to him or her, and never in your wildest dreams have you pictured each other as a couple. NO THEY CAN’T On the other hand, other’s think that no matter how wholesome the relationship between a man and a woman can be, there will always be even the slightest hint of attraction. The other one may not feel it, but who knows if the other one feels the same way. Have you ever thought that maybe your “friend” is already into you but he or she just chooses to act otherwise? Tracing from your friends who belong from the opposite sex, have you ever even unconsciously saw them being romantically linked with you? Some say that it doesn’t really have to be a physical attraction, it can also be a mental one. It must be some kind of an interest even in a minute level.
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