First, the reason why you are here now reading this narrative is because you finally made a decision to take your chance and wait instead of just letting it go. Life has its own way of making us realize that no matter how hard we plan for our future, no matter how much we prepare and lay everything on the table, we end up powerless, powerless against the clever hands of fate. Just as it is when it comes to the matters of the heart. It sucks when you are confronted with a situation when the one you really like belongs to someone else. You can’t let it go, you just can’t like someone else; therefore you do the ultimate sacrifice of waiting and hoping against hope that one day your dearly beloved and his or her partner will break up once and for all. Waste of time Waiting for someone who will probably never come is a great waste of time. It’s not like having to purchase an item from an online mobile store; you have a guarantee from the seller when your item will arrive. You can sue or at least approach the seller if your item gets delayed. In this situation, you can’t do that because you don’t have the right to make the person responsible for something that he or she doesn’t consent to. Have you ever thought that the time you spend waiting is also enough time to chase your heartbeats or to find someone else. Find someone that could actually reciprocate the feelings and emotions that are dwelling in your heart. Emotional torture To love or at least even like someone who doesn’t love you back is hell on earth. What more is liking someone who in the first place don’t love you back and moreover involved in a relationship with another person. Now that is just plain excruciating. Relationships are like your license to PDA or Public Display of Affection. How painful is it to see her jump with joy when his or her smartphone beeps and says it’s his or her boy friend or girl friend who just texted to say I love you? How heartbreaking is it to see them walking hand in hand? How tormenting is it to hear them laugh at each other’s jokes? All these and more will haunt you emotionally wishing that you should be the one in that position with him or her. Demeaning In times like this, you can’t help but question yourself. You juggle things in your mind of what seems to be wrong why he or she can’t love you back. You put in enough stress to yourself; thus giving you more pain than you could bear. It will be enough reason to give you a low self-esteem, and you might experience difficulty in establishing future relationships. At the end of the day, you just have to accept that all is fair in love and war. Related Articles The Usual Complications When It Just Wouldn't Work The Relationship Not Bound to Last
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