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Marriage is the noblest bond that can exist between a man and a lady. It is a relationship which is matched in heaven and created on Earth. This relation indeed is the strongest relation in the world. In simpler words "Marriage is a relationship between a man and a woman taking a pledge that they stay together till their death". But today this definition is somewhat changing with the increasing number of divorces taking place. Nowadays marriages are not seen to last long and there are a huge number of reasons for their going wrong, however the weirdest thing of all is that, generally these reasons are so baseless and could be solved very easily. Problems like ego, inferiority complex or attitude problem are becoming reasons for divorce and even the fast paced modern and busy world are reasons for drifting apart. Below I list to you the very simple but highly valuable things which if you instill in your everyday life may help a lot in strengthening the relationship between both of you: 1) Issues which may lead to big arguments should be avoided: The exact reasons of quarrel is known to everyone and there is no point involving ego when calm talks can handle situations. Getting frustrated or losing your temper fast as well as insulting will simply lead to more quarrels. Talking calmly or avoiding topics which can lead to fights can be a good way. 2) Listen to one another: Talking with one another bridges the gap between the two. Talking in the sense is to know each others thoughts, feelings and emotions. Because "our dear ones are the only one who care about our future". 3) Personal neatness: The attraction between a couple remains for a long time if they have fair thoughts, sweet words, clean clothes, good habits and many other such reasons. 4) Trust: Trust is the central thing for your relationship to last forever. Over possessiveness leads to fights and drifts and that should be avoided, instead trust your partner, give good space and don't avoid your past from your partner. Everyone has a past and you don't need to be embarrassed if you haven't had a good one. 5) Always respect your partner's thoughts, feelings and do give space a good space to your partner because this is an important factor for every relationship. It helps maintain a happy relationship going strong. So if you follow these basic rules and always look for solutions to problems and fights rather than being egoistic then your marriage is bound to be successful for a long time. Information on marriage retreat alternative and some more on benefits of marriage therapy.
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