PART 18 THE DANGER IN JOINING A MAN TO A WOMAN WITH PREGNANCY IN MARRIAGE

It is unfortunate to mention this trend but it is common among Christians. A young Christian Brother with the aim of checking out a Sister goes into courtship with her. He does this with the mind that she must show signs of pregnancy before he takes her for a wife. Thus he goes into petting, fondling and caressing leading her into adultery and fornication. Not too long into the relationship, she announces to him that she is pregnant. He tries to look for excuses, queries and options to disclaim the pregnancy. In some cases he may quickly announce his unpreparedness to take up such responsibilities of fatherhood, as such not ready for marriage. Others may try to tune her to accept abortion. Some more may accept the pregnancy as a good sign of her likely to bear more children for him. There he rushes into marriage and ensures that the girl marries with pregnancy in order to avoid embarrassments. In some traditions in Africa it is an abomination to go into traditional wedding; so such marriages are delayed until the woman puts to bed. It takes another six to nine months for her to feed and care for the baby. While in this stage the man feels unconnected or disconnected with her for another girl. Since there was no traditional, legal or matrimonial contract he does not feel committed to her and the baby. The woman becomes frustrated and finally gives up hope of wedding. There are some who accesses the family’s background of the woman and continues in the wedding in order to avoid embarrassment. As far as God is concerned, they have been joined together with the child as one in marriage. Thus the marriage becomes a three in one joining rather than the two becoming one. Most times we do not even consider that the child in the womb is a life entity. It is needful to understand that after a male sperm cell has united with a female ovum and the body of the child thus conceived begins to develop in the womb of the woman, to touch that little life and prevent a normal birth of the child is abortion. We are answerable to God for this abortion because we have committed murder. The government or magistrates should not be in alliance with murderers to justify the destruction of unborn children after conception as though they are lifeless. This should be considered the most wicked and willful murder of little and helpless ones. Therefore, for a man to be joined together in marriage to a pregnant woman should realize the following implications: 1] He has defiled the bed of marriage and has polluted the sanctity and holiness that is associated with it. Therefore the marriage is under God’s judgment from the very foundation of it thus it lacks honor. Thousands of ministers of God may gather together to offer prayers perhaps to change the curses on their new home but the Lord will not answer rather will consider those ministers as accomplices liable to partake in their plagues. The scripture in Hebrew 13:4 states Marriage is honorable in all, and the bed undefiled: but whoremongers and adulterers God will judge.

2] Because they have gone into the spiritual and physical defilement of their bodies against God’s command the scripture states in 1Corinthians 3:16-17 that their bodies shall be subject to destruction. Know ye not that ye are the temple of God, and that the Spirit of God dwelleth in you? If any man defiles the temple of God, him shall God destroy; for the temple of God is holy, which temple ye are. 1Corinthians3:16-17 KJV

3] Marriage is holy, fresh and sweet and does not tolerate defilement. It is not easy to pray after our passions have been inflamed and our consciences defiled by necking and petting. We would have only succeeded in grieving the Holy Spirit we have of God that dwells in us.

4] We have seen cases where the woman reaches her full term to deliver got attacked by spiritual forces because the prince of the power of the air works against the children of disobedience, both the mother and child died in the process of delivery. BE YE therefore followers of God, as dear children; And walk in love, as Christ also hath loved us, and hath given himself for us an offering and a sacrifice to God for a sweet smelling savor. But fornication, and all uncleanness, or covetousness, let it not be once named among you, as becometh saints; Neither filthiness, nor foolish talking, nor jesting, which are not convenient: but rather giving of thanks. For this ye know, that no whoremonger, nor unclean person, nor covetous man, who is an idolater, hath any inheritance in the kingdom of Christ and of God. Let no man deceive you with vain words: for because of these things cometh the wrath of God upon the children of disobedience. Ephesians 5:1-6KJV

5] The joining of a man and woman to be one is a spiritual principle and there are spiritual laws guiding the works of the Spirit. The Spirit and the Word are one. Therefore in proper marriage the Lord had spoke that two persons, a man and his wife shall be made one. The Lord did not say that two men shall be made one as in the case of the homosexuals but talked of a man and his wife being made one. That is the spirit of the Christian Brother must be one with the spirit of the Christian Sister. Their two souls must be one in love and agreement in all things then finally their bodies shall be fussed together as one. This is real. It is the work of the Spirit and how He does it is a great mystery. If therefore a third person comes in to play in this joining then the spiritual laws are broken then such couple forfeit the blessings, benefits and favor they would have earned for entering into God’s institution of marriage. 6] God requires Christians to set good examples to the unbelieving world in order to draw them to Christ Jesus. The scripture in 1Timothy4:12 states: Let no man despise thy youth: but be thou an example of the believers, in word, in conversation, in charity, in spirit, in faith, in purity. Believers should be examples of purity in marriage relationships in order to have a testimony. Many Christian couples have no testimony to share with themselves lest with another because they had lost respect one for the other having been hunted by the memories of their past together before marriage. A believer should be temperate in all things especially ensuring that his or her body is kept in total subjection in order to win the crown of glory. The scripture reveals that they that turn many to righteousness shall shine as the stars forever and ever, Daniel 12:3 And they that be wise shall shine as the brightness of the firmament; and they that turn many to righteousness as the stars forever and ever. Daniel12:3 KJV

There are cases of believers who drag their unbelieving boyfriends or girlfriends to their church in pretext of having made a good convert for the Lord. Such unbelievers turn out to be Christians in the name of marriage and when their desires are not met, leave the church and become chronic unbelievers outside. Some remained in the church frustrated with everything because when they were dragged in, the believing got them hooked up to their pastors and by an arrangement kicked them up to assume posts either as an automatic elder, deacon, an assistant pastor or the three posts all at once If discovered to be money bags without them having a knowledge of the simplest scripture like John3:16. These understudy the system and lifestyle of the church members and as wolves in sheep clothing use their money to introduce all forms of carnal and worldly practices into the system thus transforming the church to be worse than a brothel and the members, from the pastors down to the least member, whoremongers and harlots thus provoking God. As money bags they buy the hearts of the sisters, use, misuse, and even overuse them at their own will. They pay huge tithes and offerings and with the aid of the pastors they earn a standing ovation by the members to attract attention. They creep in and as subtle as the serpent devours the unaware brethren.

For the unbelieving husband is sanctified by the wife, and the unbelieving wife is sanctified by the husband: else were your children unclean; but now are they holy. 1 Corinthians 7:14 KJV

Many believers capture the above scriptures as a license to marry unbelievers who force them to be pregnant before the holy bonds of marriage. This scripture speaks of two people, a man and a woman who came together in marriage ignorantly as unbelievers. As a result of the union they had a child. The scripture describes the child as unclean. As one receives Jesus Christ into his or her spirit and becomes born again while the other still retains his or her unbelievers’ status, the Lord for the sake of the believing, sanctifies the unbelieving and makes their child/children spiritually clean and sanctified to Himself. This scripture cannot alter the command given to us in 2Corinthians 6:14-18.

Let us, with all amount of seriousness study 2Corinthians 6:14-18. Be ye not unequally yoked together with unbelievers: for what fellowship hath righteousness with unrighteousness? and what communion hath light with darkness? And what concord hath Christ with Belial? Or what part hath he that believeth with an infidel? And what agreement hath the temple of God with idols? For ye are the temple of the living God; as God hath said, I will dwell in them, and walk in them; and I will be their God, and they shall be my people. Wherefore come out from among them, and be ye separate, saith the Lord, and touch not the unclean thing; and I will receive you, And will be a Father unto you, and ye shall be my sons and daughters, saith the Lord Almighty. 2Corinthians6:14-18KJV

In some Christian marriages, many pastors go ahead to join the two together as she dresses like a virgin to the altar though pregnant. They have only succeeded in deceiving themselves and not God. The pastor is not joining two together to become one but joining three together to become one; the woman, her child and the man. This is foreign to the scriptures because for proper marriage the Lord had commanded that the two shall be made one. This trend of three being made one is another mystery outside Christ. It becomes ungodly and satanic.

God had warned us of the misuse of our bodily passions because our bodies have been made His temple and the Holy Spirit dwells therein. Most men who believe that they must have sex with their proposed life partner in courtship, to ensure that she is pregnant before she is taken to the altar, often lose the child after marriage or suffer heavy attacks from the devil himself such that their wives and babies die in labor or delivery.

Marriage whose foundation is based on adultery ends up in divorce, and the couple remains unhappy and frustrated. Most times these men having petted and fondled a woman rejects, distrusts the woman and do not continue in the relationship. It becomes heart breaking and at times suicidal. The scripture in I Corinthians 6:13-20 warns that the body is not for fornication but for the Lord {Verse 13}. Your bodies are the members of Christ {verse 15}. We have to realize that the sin of sex is the capital sin against the body as no other sin measures near to it. Here verse 18 of the scripture gives us a command TO FLEE FORNICATION. “What? Know ye not that your body is the temple of Holy Spirit which is in you, which ye have of God, and ye are not your own? Verse 19 For ye are bought with a price: therefore glorify God in your body and in your spirit, which are God’s. Verse 20 We should realize that we are created in God’s image and not brute breasts to live as animals reveling in sex passion promiscuously without lawful and holy bonds.

The scripture in Ephesians 5:28-31 showed that we are the bone of His bones and flesh of His flesh. This is to say that we are members of Christ’s body. How dare we to be wicked, having been sanctified by His blood turn around to debase ourselves to the nature of beasts and defile our bodies with unholy lust, deliberately inflaming sex passions like whoremongers and harlots when we are made in the image of God? We have heard of priests, bishops and religious clergy men craving for sex like promiscuous beasts. This is not fair to Christ Jesus whom they claimed to be servants of and members of His Body. ABOMINATION!!!God forbid it!!!

For if we sin willfully after that we have received the knowledge of the truth, there remaineth no more sacrifice for sins, But a certain fearful looking for of judgment and fiery indignation, which shall devour the adversaries. He that despised Moses’ law died without mercy under two or three witnesses: Of how much sorer punishment, suppose ye, shall he be thought worthy, who hath trodden underfoot the Son of God, and hath counted the blood of the covenant, wherewith he was sanctified, an unholy thing, and hath done despite unto the Spirit of grace? For we know him that hath said, Vengeance belongeth unto me, I will recompense, saith the Lord. And again, The Lord shall judge his people. IT IS A FEARFUL THING TO FALL INTO THE HANDS OF THE LIVING GOD. Hebrew 10:26-31 KJV The scripture in I Corinthians 10:31 states that Whether therefore ye eat, or drink, or whatsoever ye do, do all to the glory of God. Now let us judge ourselves so that we would not be judged as prescribed by the scriptures in I Corinthians 11:31-32

For if we would judge ourselves, we should not be judged. But when we are judged, we are chastened of the Lord, that we should not be condemned with the world.

Does petting, necking and the arousal of sex passion, honor God in our body? The scripture in Ephesians 4:30 reveal the measure of pain we cause the Holy Spirit dwelling in us.

And grieve not the Holy Spirit of God, whereby ye are sealed unto the day of redemption. Ephesians 4:30 KJV In fact it is the height of abomination committed against the Holy Spirit. At times we feel God is love and Jesus Christ is seated at the right hand of God interceding for us at least going outside God’s command once is not a bad deal after all. Some priests live perpetually in sin or practice the sin of fornication with their members as a means to justify their work with the devil. Beloved, Adam and Eve only sinned ONCES and the whole world was thrown into darkness and God drove them out of His presence and the Garden of Eden. They saw that they were naked Before this time, God clothed them with spiritual garments because they were living souls and they lived in harmony and happiness. God had repeatedly warned that we should not allow such sins be labeled against us even once. In Ephesians 5: 3 it states: But fornication, and all uncleanness, or covetousness, let it not be once named among you, as becometh saints. Then in Ephesians 5:5 the scripture states: For this ye know, that no whoremonger, nor unclean person, nor covetous man, who is an idolater, hath an inheritance in the kingdom of Christ and of God. In verse 11: 12 of Ephesians 5, the scripture states also And have no fellowship with the unfruitful works of darkness, but rather reprove them. For it is a shame even to speak of those things which are done of them in secret Ephesians 5:11-12 KJV What are these shameful things that young people do in the dark, fornication, petting, kissing, caressing, hugging and fondling. These practices grieve and quench the Holy Spirit in our spirit. Our disobedience may cause the Holy Spirit to destroy our bodies after defilement. We have been warned. He that has ears to hear what the Spirit is saying should take heed. Flee also youthful lusts; but follow righteousness, faith, charity, peace with them that call on the Lord out of a pure heart. 2 Timothy 2:22 KJV It is impossible to call on the Lord with a pure heart when you fornicate, pet and get into all forms of immorality. Then we must heed the teaching of God’s Word and do what is right.

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